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Reincarnation

scasco — Sun, 17 Aug 2008 18:56:50 GMT

How many people here believe in reincarnation? If you do, would you want to be reincarnated? And if so, what would you want to be reincarnated as (and where would you want to be)? Personally, I don't really want to be reincarnated. When I die, I just want to sleep forever. And I don't believe I'd want to come back to Earth.

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Nueve (#9)

Chachi-Corrigan — Sat, 02 Aug 2008 23:18:31 GMT

We supposed to learn Spanish here David!!! :)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xcdNr3Ddnxk

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Do you have psychic ability?

sean — Thu, 07 Aug 2008 05:03:47 GMT

I read that Scorpios are naturally psychic. Sometimes I have a strong gut feeling about something thats happening or going to happen and I am usually right even when I really dont want to be.
I also have a strong psychic bond to my ex-lover. I can tell when something is happening to her and when she is asleep or awake from2 cities away. I can sense when she is in close pximity and I can suddenly look up and see her face in a crowd from far away. She is usually looking back at me.

Do you guys have anything simmillar or some kind of psychic ability or sixth sense that is developed?

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How Long....

Singularity — Fri, 01 Aug 2008 01:39:03 GMT

...does it take to get over a breakup?

Well, I heard that every ounce of another man's / woman's bodily fluid you swallow shaves a WEEK off the healing process!!!!

It is a TRUE and SCIENTIFIC FACT. I distinctly remember reading it in the Science Section of the NY Times this morning!

he, he (thank you Dan Savage!)

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frustrated by scorpio behavior

Wolfie — Tue, 15 Jul 2008 19:14:37 GMT

Okay, right now I'm super confused about the scorpio male that is in my life.

He is very reserved and picky. If he doesn't like you, he will spend every day alone instead of being around people he doesn't like. He has few people he considers close friends. So for the last month or so he and I have been hanging out a lot. We make out, cuddle, hold hands, etc.. but no sex. He is very sweet - he strokes my hair and stares at me and is very intense, which I like. I can tell he's very sensitive and guarded.

Recently he told me he's starting stuff up again with one of his old friends. I told him it wasn't right that he led me on for a month, but that being his friend was important to me because I'd never met someone that I clicked so well with before. But then a few days after that I find out that he changed his mind about his old friend and is instead starting anew with his ex-girlfriend of two years.

His relationship with her was built on drug use and codependence. He admitted to me several times before that dating her was kind of a mistake and that he couldn't be in a relationship with her. All of his friends dislike her and berate him every time he goes back to her. He told me that he was definitely broken up with her for good this time.

But now he's running back to her and I don't know why. My suspicion is that he's never opened up to anyone but her and his need to be open with someone overpowers is own common sense. But it's just frustrating to see him bouncing back and forth like this and I was wondering if there were any astrological insights into his behavior, so that maybe I could be more understanding of his position. I'm not sure how he could abruptly abandon all feelings for me.

Sun, Mercury, Venus, Pluto - Scorpio

Moon - Virgo

Mars - Gemini

Jupiter - Leo

Saturn, Uranus, Neptune - Capricorn

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Scorpio wrecking my head!

seagoat — Sun, 10 Aug 2008 19:01:34 GMT

I'm trying to understand a Scorpio guy ( huge task I know! ). I'm Capricorn by the way.
Ok back story. We met online about 4 months ago. Straight away we both felt this massive connection with each other and we would chat for hours every day. Our chats were very deep and also became very sexually charged to the point of insanity! I want to give all the important details here without boring you all. Ok so this guy lied to me twice and I forgave him and we moved on. First lie was about having and I quote "an on/off date" which he later confessed was actually living with his girlfriend for 4 years. That threw me hard - given the content of alot of our conversations. Next lie revealed was about his name - he told me it was X and later confessed it was actually Y. That one wasn't so bad but still an unnecessary lie in my mind. So we carried on our contact and we got closer and closer to each other. We both admitted having feelings towards the other on a level niether had experienced before. We began then to chat on the phone at any opportunity we could - again talking for hours. I sometimes felt like we were having an affair - although nothing had actually happened. He talked at this point of making changes to his current situation etc.
Then he tells me he just found out his girlfriend is pregnant. I was devsatated to say the least - all our hopes of being together gone. We again worked through this and I started dating other guys. At this point we we're having some terrible arguments - as a scorp he was very cutting and hurt me badly with some of his comments but being the seagoat I held in there with him and he always came back to me and each time he did we were deeper into it.
So now 4 months on and things have changed in a big way. A few weeks back he began cutting back his contact with me. We were regularly texting each other all day every day then he was only texting maybe once or twice a day. If I asked him what was going on he said it was my perception and that everything was fine. I know in my gut it wasn't. Then last Sunday we had a row by text ( a silly tiff really ) and there hasn't been a word from either of us since. I know I'm being a typical stubborn goat here by not contacting him but I wanted to see if he would get in touch with me. So after a week I now feel like it's becoming a battle of wills to see who can hold out the longest. I'm missing him so flipping badly but don't want to give in. I'm afraid I've lost him totally from my life and I think if he feels I've snubbed him here he will never forgive me.
Sorry if this is trivial but I'd like to understand why he is acting the way he is with me - pushing me away with one hand and pulling me deeper with the other. I'm very confused and beginning to doubt the sincerity of anything he has said to me. Will he come back? Will he resent me? Will he make me pay for this? I want to make it right again but also dont want to take a hit from that stinger.
Any thoughts greatly appreciated.

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a question

jennifer — Sat, 09 Aug 2008 00:37:26 GMT

So...I've seen a lot of posts around here asking for relationship advice and what not.
Well I guess you could say I'm looking for advice, but not so much advice
as just thoughts. I'm not going to go into chart details, since I usually don't
stress on astrology too much. All I'm going to say is that he's an aries.

I've been friends with said aries for a long time. Years.
We've had crushes on each other on and off.
Just recently we started hanging out, we had some alcohol in our systems,
one thing led to another and we started kissing.
We haven't had intercourse, just kissing and cuddling.
It takes me a lot of trust and feelings to have sex with someone anyways.
Anyways he came back around a few times, called me and so forth,
common sense was telling me he wanted to go deeper with me, but now
I'm hearing he's confused and wants to start talking to my friends room mate.
Who is, all common courtesy's aside, very overweight, very manly looking, very plain
personality and boring. The exact opposite of me and not his type what-so-ever.

So this little act in general was enough for me to lose interest.
Anybody think I should try to win him over at all?
I think he's just a moron.

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so......

jennifer — Thu, 07 Aug 2008 03:18:18 GMT

what music you kids into?
I'm curious.

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Hmmm

justme — Tue, 05 Aug 2008 16:59:59 GMT

Wow. I have fallen for a double scorpio. Hard. This one's communication, and sensitive, and analytical (which I love, being a virgo). Only, he's a little too sensitive. He thinks he's reading me sometimes, but it's not correct. For instance, He has 2 kids, and I have 4. His kids are spending their first week with us, and we're all together. When he and I went to pick up his kids, they were being "kids", and totally back-talking, being snooty, you know, things kids do. I just talked to them like I would one of mine, and said, "I'm asking you to do something, do it". Last night, he told me that when I said that, I obviously thought that he isn't doing good job of parenting... Um, nope. Not at all. I just have so many kids that order is imperative. Plus, I was raised to respect adults... And, from what he's said in the past, he's raising his kids to as well. He thinks I'm judging him, and I'm not! Life is too short for that, and I've adapted and changed my parenting style many times, I had to, for survival! lol

So, for 3 days, he was quiet and morose, and wouldn't touch me. Then, last night he wouldn't let me go to sleep! I was so tired, after taking the day off with 7!!! kids, and I was about to drift off, and he started jumping on the bed, and playing withe me, and saying, "I want to talk, you can't sleep yet." We ended up talking till 1:30am. He told me he thinks I want to change him. That's what I meant by him thinking he can read me, but not.

Honestly, I think it's awesome that he finally came out and discussed it with me, and he felt so much better afterwards, we FINALLY had SEX! Woohoo!

Anyway, what should I do in the future to prevent the whole clam-up thing for 3 days? Or, is this just the process of getting to know each other? ugh. I hate dating! :-)

I just backed off, and let him have some space to think, and he came to me with what he had thought and was ready to discuss it. Did I do the right thing?

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How to forgive?

Prince — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 20:12:41 GMT

OMG you spilled my root beer float...I'll remember it for the rest of my life!! Jk, i forgive you ^_^

ya i wish it was as simple as that.

How do you forgive someone that's caused you a tremendous amount of pain?

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BETRAYAL

Ana — Sat, 26 Jul 2008 15:04:35 GMT

"I know it was you Fredo, you broke my heart, you broke my heart." one of my favourites scenes from Godfather, part II

How do you deal with people who betray you in some way. Do you do revenge ,or do you just let them be couse they´re not worth of youre time and energy, thinking that sooner or later they will pay for what they did through their karma

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this might be a chart issue but....

jennifer — Sat, 26 Jul 2008 07:44:12 GMT

....I cannot stand pisces or cancer.

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Scorpio Dragons

tmba — Mon, 15 May 2006 23:09:01 GMT

Any more Scorpio Dragons out there???

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Yay, New for the Scorpio's within this Tribe........

Chachi-Corrigan — Wed, 06 Aug 2008 08:55:15 GMT

For fun, i started a runoff of this tribe in another site location, cause i am tired of the bad maintennace here, the non existant responses from admin, and being unable to log on at any time of the day or night. So. this tribe is for scorpios, ran by a scorpio! something sorely lacking in this sites astrology boards. (no slight meant to current moderator). Wont it be nice to have better functioning site? And you can still tie yourself into this tribe as well, so you need not miss anything on either side. And the other plus, is when tribe goes down AGAIN, you can just switch the discussion over to the other site if you'd like. :) :) :)

so come check it out, see if you'd like to dip yer toes in a scorpios bathtub!

http://runfromscorpiotribe.ning.com/

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Dumb Question

Sunshine — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 14:54:22 GMT

Say you spend the night with someone new, right? But they had gas and farted in their sleep like three times, in the bed with you... would you look at them different?

How would you react? Would you laugh? Would you think it was cute, even? What would be the mature thing to do? For you? For them?

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water on mars

reverendave — Sat, 02 Aug 2008 13:54:07 GMT

ok, so presumably y'all've heard about this, right? it's been confirmed that there's water on mars.
so, in eleventy-hundred years or so, when the human race goes there & takes over from the martians cuz we've made earth uninhabitable, & then when we fuck up mars too (cuz that's how we roll), how will that affect astrology? will i still be a scorpio?

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help!

reverendave — Sat, 02 Aug 2008 13:55:21 GMT

this scorpion never learned how to swim.
is there a turtle around here who'll help me cross this scary river?

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#9...#9...#9...#9...#9...#9...#9...#9...#9...#9...

reverendave — Sat, 02 Aug 2008 15:11:03 GMT

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ffDPTKn7HiY&feature=related

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What Level Of Hell Do You Reside In?

Ana — Mon, 30 Jun 2008 09:20:43 GMT

http://www.quizilla.com/quizzes/7420409/what-level-of-hell-do-you-reside-in

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OCHO, #8

Chachi-Corrigan — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 06:54:59 GMT

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FBtmaq0J2kU

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any libra/scorpio cusps on here?

jennifer — Thu, 10 Jul 2008 23:10:43 GMT

.....because I love you

we should meet/talk/hangout/exchangenumbers.....

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A Scorpio's toying with you behaviour

Sugar — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 04:19:38 GMT

Sometimes I feel like I am his favorite game. He is a scorpio and I am a cancer. I'm growing tired of him, if I'm not already. However, what angers me is I know how much he adores me, do anything for me. But will pretend he doesn't care and even at some times be cruel to me. And when I've had enough of him and stop talking to him and or tell him off, he is always willing to forgive and have me back and help me as much as he can, even if years have passed. There seems to be nothing I could do to make him hate me forever. But he won't give me what I want or need either, just enough that I still need him, or have to plan to meet him.

He loves when I need him, and hates and even pulls out his stinger when he thinks I don't need him.
I'm growing so tired of all these games and the manipulation.

I'm trying to cut him out of my life.

Why spend so much time on someone like this?
Why would you gain satisfaction from this.
It seems to me just a bunch of wasted time.

I am not his friend nor lover.

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memory

Prince — Mon, 28 Jul 2008 16:05:03 GMT

you guys have extremely vivid memories and can recall almost anything you experienced?

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Chiron

Sat, 26 Apr 2008 16:46:25 GMT

http://www.north-node.com/astrology-tutorials/chiron

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When did you notice

Prince — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 02:17:08 GMT

that you were a scorpio type?

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WHAT TO DO?

Hikoro — Sun, 27 Jul 2008 19:46:57 GMT

I need advice please.

i dated a cancer man 8 months ago, i was not ready to be with him and rejected him. nevertheless, i still continue to love him. i thought my feelings for him were done with till we met a few weeks ago and realized i still love him.

he has a girlfriend though.....and me being the inquisitive scorpio kept asking questions about his relationship and the answers hurt me even more, the way it sounds...everything is ok between them. She is either an aries or a taurus and also very jealous. i don't know the specific birthdate but taurus and cancer tend to get along very well, right? Although, she seems to be the adventurous type, so she may be aries.

Point being, we continue to communicate through e-mail BUT i know that as long as i communicate with him, i will always have the hope that something could happen between us. Now, that does not mean i am limiting myself to other people.

On the other hand, as a cancer he is supposed to be loyal, etc. This year is good for cancerians in terms of relationships, right? So, my pessimistic mind already sees that there is no hope for us and that eventually, he will shack up, marry this woman and have a family with her.....and this is too painful for me. So, maybe I should just stop communicating with him?

But, I feel bad with disappearing on him like that...i am a very loyal scorpio.

So, what should I do, continue communicating with him or do a disappearing act?

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One sexy word

StingKing — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 02:30:51 GMT

Think of ONE word you feel is sexy and post it, only one word.

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scorpio wonders about girls and sex...

Radical Dreamer — Mon, 30 Jun 2008 22:34:36 GMT

hey guys, it's been a strange life-altering year of change and transformation/ near death + regeneration. Well, i'm alive again, and on the prowl :)... some discussion would be nice... (btw, i've never had a 'real' girlfriend... i'm 21, a virgin too, and I can be very shy... but i'm VERY passionate)

three girls are all over my mind as of late. A gemini, virgo, and cancer. I want the gemini the most, but I can't have her at this time because she's gone for the summer. The virgo is so interesting and secretive... we keep crossing paths and she keeps opening up a little more to me, and it's VERY intriguing. It's like virgo knows my secret... The cancer lives in my complex, and I got her alone from a party and we laid next to each other under the stars for quite a while, just getting high, talking, and being awkward (in an interesting, equal way).. i'm so enchanted by all of them...

I guess I don't really have an exact question, I just wanna talk about desire to bond with love and sex. Like i've said, I've recently regenerated from what could have easily been my death, and I'm really interested in sexual union/love now; like i'm ready for it... I don't know how else to explain it. It's like I was a different person in the past, but after this life-altering experience i'm something different... all these girls look at me and treat me in a way i'm not used to. So ya, any of you with experience I would love your words... thanx!

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Scorpio's "inner being" ?

alallaalalaaaa — Wed, 16 Jul 2008 01:10:11 GMT

Interesting , i've thought about it randomly ... but what exactly is a scorpios hidden self / inner being ?
is it even kept away (for the most part)from lovers?

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Scorpio with Libra

jasminwind — Wed, 23 Feb 2005 11:22:31 GMT

So has any other scorpio out there have an opinion on this combination?

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WTF do I do?

justme — Thu, 17 Jul 2008 20:34:40 GMT

So, I'm seeing a Scorpio. When we're together, it's great...

He doesn't call me. He did the first week, then just stopped....

We went for a weekand a half not talking, and I though, "ok, he's not interested..." Then, he texted me and asked if I wasn't talking to him anymore. So, I answered, I though you weren't.... and we made up..... and out.....

Anywho... now, it's beed a month and we've been seeing each other regularly....

He hasn't called me for 3 days.

WTF?????

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Lost my libido...help!

Mon, 07 Jul 2008 05:06:55 GMT

Hi all,

I used to be, well, a typical Scorpio (female). I recently talked to an ex boyfriend who told me breathlessly "but my god you were talented...oh man I still have memories...for what its worth, you were probably the most fun I had...god I miss that mouth..." (yes, that's all verbatim). As you can see, typical horny scorpio chick who makes men drool and dream and wears them out! He is married now, so we're not going to get together obviously, but man he made me realize how long it's been since I actually had sex, and more so, how long it's been since I had sex I enjoyed. I've lost my libido pretty much. I've tried - I've had sex with various guys but none of them really interested me. Having sex with men who I wasn't totally interested in in the past didn't bother me, because let's be honest, I was mostly using them for the sex anyway. ;-) At the time, I was very into things like reiki, and reading about being a Scorpio, and power and bdsm (not so much doing it, but reading about it, mostly because I couldn't find someone I wanted to submit to). I was actually somewhat sexually submissive (and yet dominant) and got off a lot in making men, well, making men drool over me like the above ex-boyfriend obviously did.

Somewhere along the way I lost the plot. I became super focused on a bunch of personal and professional goals and had to necessarily cut out a lot of people and superfluous stuff. I also went through some personal betrayals and tough times, but nothing too extreme (heartbreak, crappy roommates, robbery). In that time I became disconnected from a lot of people and a lot of things I really liked. My sex life also became null and void. Now, I get annoyed when it's obvious a man just wants to sleep with me. I don't like being touched and I haven't had a crush in eons. I can't even enjoy masturbation much - it's more of a chore that I do because I feel I should. I've fallen into the rut of work/sleep/work/sleep. I need to get out of this!

So....how do I reconnect to myself and to others? How do I get my Scorpionic libido back? I'm in a rut and I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong or what steps I need to take to become the fun-loving sexy saucy minx I once was. Any tips?

Thanks!
D

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A Scorpios Digestive Health and Intestinal Issues?

Monica — Wed, 09 Jul 2008 00:45:14 GMT

So I have quite a few scorpio friends both men and women. I've noticed an interesting development between them all over time. Most of the (not all) seem to have very delicate digestive systems, problems with reflux or heart burn, and varying degrees of plumbing issues from the south end, to put it nicely. I would like to hear if other scorpios share such ailments.

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Who can you count on to be there for you?

Monica — Thu, 10 Jul 2008 02:42:56 GMT

Something completely wonderful and unexpected happened today. I was having lunch at one of my favorite little cafes by myself, as I often do, when one of my best scorpio male friends comes over to join me. I hadn't expected to see him today since I thought he was working, yet he always knows where to find me. He ordered himself a hearty lunch for a guy but seemed really quiet. So I knew something was on his mind since he's usually quite the chatter box when he's happy. So I wait, knowing that he'll get around to it when he's ready. After he finished his lunch, he reached into the pocket of his favorite leather jacket and pulled out a little velvet box, like from a fancy jewelry store. I didn't think much of it, but thought he wanted me to inspect some bit of bling he'd bought for his latest girl toy. I open it and instead of a ring I find a silver chain with a half a heart charm. Like the sort best friends would give each other. I looked at him a bit confused, and he pulled the other half from under his shirt. I just smiled, so touched by his gesture. He told me..."You're my best friend. You've been there for me when even my own blood abandoned me. So I want you to know that I love you and you're my family now." He got up, put the necklace on for me, kissed my cheek sweetly and winked at me as he went on his way. That man never ceases to amaze me, and I've know him for nearly 3 years now. I just wanted to share because I felt so loved and appreciated. I also wanted to hear what you might have to share about the bonds of friendship.

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Scorpio + Tantra

jennifer — Wed, 09 Jul 2008 07:00:30 GMT

I have been practicing and studying
Tantra for 8 months now.
I feel it mixes very well with the energy output of the sign, keeping my more
primal and base root chakra urges under control, as well
as my strong feelings of blending consciousness and sexuality,
two things I have been striving for as long as I can remember.
What do the rest of you think?
I think it's a perfect match. ;-)

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If you were...

Savannah — Sun, 23 Mar 2008 23:25:14 GMT

Invisible, where is the first place you would go?

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why is scorpio in tribe so much??

qasdafil — Sat, 28 Jun 2008 21:04:09 GMT

out of about 50 tribes, scorpio and scorpio moon always are at the very top of my list with the most new tribes and discussions.... why? i never thought of scorpios as very communicative. explain???

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SIETE

Chachi-Corrigan — Thu, 05 Jun 2008 14:19:45 GMT

Play a country song backwards....

http://youtube.com/watch?v=KbT-MbDEnWA

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Help....can two Scorpio's Survive?

jimbonova73 — Sun, 29 Jun 2008 02:51:01 GMT

Hiya, I've been a member for a while but have been inactive for sometime. I am in a fairly new relationship, just a little over a year now and we moved into the same home early (but not too early for gay relationships -- moving van on the 2nd date is the big joke). We moved in together at about 7 months after we met in person (we knew each other on-line about 5 months prior to that). We had both been out of our previous relationships for a little over a year.

So, we're both Scorpios and we've recently hit a brick wall. We both seem to want it our way and find it difficult to compromise. Anyone have any suggestions for us or have been in or are in a Scorpio/Scorpio relationship?

I fell head over heels for him while we were still just chatting on-line actually and knew he was the 'forever' guy for me. We mutually agreed to see a therapist, that starts this week. We are just so hard headed and sometimes miss each others points in conversations, guess since we are always thinking of what we want, not what the other wants.

Its wild, we both feel the same thing at the same time but can't bring each other out of it. Like sadness, stress, loneliness, etc. Only polar opposite we have is sex drive, his is through the roof and mine has stalled (I know, unreal for a Scorpio!). We also most times know what the other is about to say or ask.

I hope to hear from others who have been or are in a "same sign" relationship. I'm early November and he's mid-November if that makes any difference.

Take care,
Jim

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acht!

reverendave — Sat, 05 Jul 2008 20:47:30 GMT

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IrOKMJevQ1M

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scorp darkness

Smelkstar's Universe — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 06:01:15 GMT

right now, Im feeling a bit pissed off with all these people who insist that staying in the love and light is the only place to be. Be positive, dont focus on the negative. Bla bla bla. But I like studying the darkside of life and humanity, my own darkness. It intrigues me, I love following its trail back to its root. Why is it just seen as a negative and not the flip side of positive? Reality? Part of life? I love burning down to the ashes of self and reinventing, reinvigorating, evolving with some new perspective, insight, wisdom. As a scorpio woman who has spent quite a large amount of life in the darker recesses.. do the shiny shiny people not just shit you to tears? Or am I just jealous of them for their constant friggin happiness? I for one think humans need a good dose of hardship to make them better people, give them perspective. I have experienced a lot of grief, which inturn makes me appreciate life as (one example) or is this just rationalising my own behaviour? Probably.

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Posting a question to help a friend.

Monica — Fri, 04 Jul 2008 01:36:40 GMT

My friend, her husband is a scorpio, and lately he's been really reserved and not wanting to communicate. He's working long hours, is stressed, and very tired most of the time. But she's annoyed with him because he isn't interacting or talking to her. She said that last night, they were both sitting on the sofa. She was sitting next to him trying to get him to pay attention to her and he was busy playing WoW. She wants me to ask what she can do to get through to him and get the attention from her husband that she needs. I'm going to print out whatever replies I get to give to her tomorrow. Thanks if you can help her.

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pluto in scorpio 1984-1996

theApostate — Sun, 02 Mar 2008 21:44:12 GMT

Does anybody want to share their experiences from this time?
How did Pluto affect you?
What kind of changes, or experiences, etc...

ghost.
-> doing preliminary research for a Pluto/Moon conjunction

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What's in your box

StingKing — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 02:36:37 GMT

What things do you have in your memory box? I'm talking about sentimental thing you value, something that represents past memories you don't want to lose and maybe do not want to see (yet). Not one of those secret boxes you keep your naughty books and toys, well unless they're sentimental to you!

If box is too small, you can tell us about your memory suitcase, crate and cargo :P no, kidding... just the small ones please.

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mystery schools Q&A thread

theApostate — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 08:15:17 GMT

first question...

Transference.
Wow! Can anybody tell me how or why this process works?

i.e., you and the sea. you become the sea, and your body becomes... whoever is watching you... then you become awesome, the way your normal self thinks the sea is awesome... (i recomment "fire" for men, try any kind of flame, whatever suits your fancy. candlelight, campfire, forest fire, etc.)

or.. i.e., you and the mirror... person in the mirror is you, then your physical self becomes someone you want to attract... and you want them to think you're hot... then the person in the mirror becomes sexy..

o.0

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am i the only one

Lazarus — Sun, 29 Jun 2008 09:21:43 GMT

who feels like i can only be read by a gemini?! O_o they seem to notice when i'm only telling them what i want them to hear while keeping some to myself =/

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Can I play too?

Monica — Sun, 29 Jun 2008 22:26:20 GMT

Greetings! I'm new to the site and to this particular tribe. I come seeking advice and understanding on behalf of myself and my scorpio best friend. We've been very close friends for over 2 years, though not in a romantic/sexual way. I want to have a deeper, more trusting relatiionship with him but I'm not sure how to go about it. I always get the feeling that he's holding something back from me. Yet I understand that everyone has secrets and a need for personal privacy on occasion. He's never lied to me or hurt me so I've had no reason to distrust him. I'm so happy and grateful for his friendship and just want our friendship to be the best it can be. Can anyone advise me? Thank you for you time.:)

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Snap

StingKing — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 08:29:46 GMT

I tend to feel like I'm going to snap (temper-wise) rather often lately. Are there anything happening with the planets right now I can blame these feelings on?

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fashion

theApostate — Tue, 03 Jun 2008 06:53:39 GMT

So... do you have your own style, independent of whatever is apparently "in"?
And do you get criticized for your own choices.

What's your favorite look?

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Scorpio Shadow

ZOMBIEHOOLIGAN — Sat, 14 Jun 2008 23:52:49 GMT

What can we say about the dark side of Scorpio, when he/she is already so well acquainted with his/her own darkness? This is a water sign: full of feeling, subjective in approaching life and people. Scorpio has the courage to face all manner of things, but this usually lie on the emotional plane. What he/she often can't face is the degree to which his/her reactions are governed by his/her opinions. All water signs as a group, tend to opinionatedness, because they are so often unaware of their own thought processes. Being so subjective and concerned for their own personal values, it is difficult to see the clear, fair, bird's-eye view of things. And here is one of Scorpio's greatest blind spots. He/She can be downright fanatical in his/her views about people and life. And this fanaticism can, in the wrong place and at the wrong time, spur him/her into some pretty unpleasant actions based on biased or distorted judgment.

Give one of these a week, a year, ten years, and you have a real horror show, straight out of Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf? Scorpio can ravage a marriage, a love affair, a home, with this kind of behaviour. It isn't sufficient to just say it's a jealous sign. There are many kinds of jealousy. Possessive, yes, but all water signs are possessive. But Scorpio's pathological jealousy isn't simply fear of losing a loved one. We all fear that. Underneath you will find some bitter little vision of life, some black belief about the fundamental rottenness of men/women or whatever. Scorpio's shadow is his/her negativity, couched in rigid opinions which lurk below the surface and often torment him/her at the moments when he/she should feel happiest.

It takes a long time for Scorpio to learn to trust and to forgive. Usually he/she has learned that mistrust early in life, from seeing the dark shadows standing behind his/her parents and his/her environmental upbringing or education. And the wound takes a long time to heal.

It isn't the vindictiveness in these classical situations that is really the problem. Although we're taught that a little honest revenge is often healthier than the outward show of acquiescence and the inner, repressed anger that spews out through indirect channels that so many of us call being 'good'. Besides, sometimes it does a world of good for someone to get back what he/she has just dished out; it might stop him/her from doing it again. What's really wrong here is that Scorpio never gives the other person the benefit of the doubt. The opinion is already formed, prepackaged like frozen vegetables, ready to be trotted out and tacked onto the offender regardless of whether it's true or not, and without knowing the facts of the situation. Water signs are uncomfortable with facts. Facts confuse the issue, which for water is primarily how it feels, not what really happened. Scorpio's shadow side completely ignores the other person's viewpoint.

This is a pretty hard thing to live with. You can see its traces not only in individuals, but in political, spiritual, or religious ideologies as well. Certain astrologers have considered that Germany is traditionally ruled by Scorpio. Where else but in a Scorpio could you have a single fanatical idea - anti-Semitism - arise with such force to take complete possession of a nation with such destruction following in its wake? The Scorpio who cannot deal with the hydra within himself/herself will project it into the world and see it in others. Then you have the persecutors who believe it their mission to redeem humanity at gun-point. St. Paul was said to have been a Scorpio. Much of the bloodshed committed in the name of "Christ" throughout the ages stems from his interpretation of Christianity. Never forget that Scorpio is a sign of great power - for good or ill. No Scorpio, however apparently insignificant, is without influence over those close to him/her. See that mild little man/woman over there in the grey suit, reading the Wall Street Journal? He/She may not think about things like witch-hunts and the paradox of violence in the name of Jesus. He/She may not have read Faust, or Paradise Lost. But he/she is a Scorpio. He/She has insight and power, however repressed. And he/she can make of his/her life anything he/she wishes.

http://songsdomain.tripod.com/scorpio/index.html

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The obssesion

Ana — Tue, 06 May 2008 13:43:59 GMT

How obssesive do you become around people you love.

When you love someone, does your life starts to revolve around that person to the point you faile on other life areas.

Do you feel like your obssesion takes all over you and becomes something you cant control.

Do you, with your actions, crose the line of „sanity“ and clearly become insane, but you dont really care, that youre gone crazy

And do you scare people away with such behaviour?

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Confiding?

Ana — Mon, 02 Jun 2008 23:56:32 GMT

Do you have problems with confiding yourselves to other people?

I mean about the the stuff that are very personal, deep or painful. And is it because you are affraid that the same person you are confiding today, is gonna use that infrormation, insight you have given her, as away to hurt you in that place …tomorrow.
Im not just being paranoid that friend can become youre enemy, but he/she can hurt you in that way maybe unintentionally,couse people are sometimes idiots and are not thinking about what they are saying

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TRUST

Ana — Tue, 10 Jun 2008 19:07:50 GMT

'Trust And You Will Be Trusted' Said The Liar To The Fool”... Type O Negative

Did you ever trust anyone blindly and completly
Or do you second guess anything and everyone

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My Scorpio men

Remi Love — Wed, 26 Mar 2008 23:09:30 GMT

Yes, I said "my" Scorpio men. Where are you guys? Don't be scared. I won't talk too much. ^_^

A cute Gemini

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Control

Savannah — Tue, 24 Jun 2008 00:58:47 GMT

Do you have to have it in every aspect of your life?

Did you realize how much control you had to have only after meeting someone you couldn't control?

Have you ever sought to control someone in your professional life, so much so, that it actually crossed personal boundaries?

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HAPPINESS

Ana — Thu, 19 Jun 2008 16:33:43 GMT

Is happiness in little things like fresh coffee in the morning, smell of flowers ,yada,yada
Or is it a beautiful house with beautiful wife/husband, dog and all that
Do you see beauty in little thigs?

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Not your Mama's sun sign description! LMAO

Sunshine — Mon, 23 Jun 2008 21:11:00 GMT

Bastards of the Zodiac - recognise anyone?

ARIES (3/21-4/19) You are the pioneer type and think most people are dickheads. You are quick tempered, impatient, and scornful of advice. You are a prick.

TAURUS (4/20-5/20) You are practical and persistent. You have a dogged determination and work like hell. Most people think you are stubborn and bull-headed. You are nothing but a goddamn communist.

GEMINI (5/21-6/20) You are a quick and intelligent thinker. People like you because you are bisexual. You are inclined to expect too much for too little. This means you are a cheap bastard. Geminis are notorious for thriving on incest.

CANCER (6/21-7/22) You are sympathetic and understanding to other peoples problems which makes you a sucker. You are always putting things off. That is why you will always be on welfare and won't be worth a shit. Everyone in prison is a Cancer.

LEO (7/23-8/22) You consider yourself a born leader. Others think you are an idiot. Most Leos are bullies. You are vain and cannot tolerate honest criticism. Your arrogance is disgusting. Leo people are thieving motherfuckers, and spend most of their time kissing mirrors.

VIRGO (8/23-9/22) You are the logical type and hate disorder. This shitpicking is sickening to your friends. You are cold and unemotional, and often fall asleep during sex. Virgos make good bus drivers and pimps

LIBRA (9/23-10/22) You are the artistic type and have a difficult time with reality. If your male, you are probably queer. Chances for employment and monetary gain are nil. Most Libra women are sluts.. All Libras die of venereal disease.

SCORPIO (10/23-11/21) The worst of the lot. You are shrewd in business and cannot be trusted. You shall achieve the pinnacle of success because of your total lack of ethics. You are a complete son-of-a-bitch. Most Scorpios are murdered.

SAGITTARIUS (11/22-12/21) You are optimistic and enthusiastic. You have a reckless tendency to rely on luck because you have no talent. The majority of Sagittarians are drunks. Nixon was a Sagittarius. You are not worth the time of day.

AQUARIUS (1/20-2/10) You have an inventive mind and are inclined to be progressive. You lie a great deal. You make the same mistakes repeatedly because you are stupid. Everyone thinks you are a fucking jerk.

PISCES (2/19-3/20) You have a vivid imagination and often think you are being followed by the FBI or CIA. You have minor influence on your friends and people resent you for flaunting your power. You lack confidence and are generally a dipshit

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Sensuality & Sexuality

Ana — Wed, 18 Jun 2008 15:21:19 GMT

Sensuality
„Look in the dictionary for a definition of sensuality, depending upon the version and maker, varying definitions exist. Ask any person to define sensuality, and still more interpretations. Sensuality in it's truest form is not to be confused with SEX. Sensuality means to be aroused by things of beauty, luxury and refinement, to be aware of and explore the world, life and love with all the senses. To be sensual is to be aware of and appreciate the natural, ecstasy that can be found in the sensuous, passionate world of feeling, inhabited by poets, artists, song writers and dreamers. Being sensual brings to us a life felt through our senses, seen only in the world of spirit. „

Sexuality
„A person's behaviors, desires, and attitudes related to sex and physical intimacy with others.“

So, are you sensual, do you enjoy in sensuality, or are you just wild animal sexual beast

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Standing at the Crossroads with Hekate

AllanBeau — Fri, 13 Jun 2008 00:20:53 GMT

By: Isabelle Ghaneh

Decisions are hard for all of us. Which way do I go now, which path is the right one, what do I do next, or, most urgently, where do I go from here? Life is never easy and some decisions can be hard ones, very hard. And, at times, it can seem as if there is no answer, although we know that is untrue and every situation has a solution, no matter how hard it can be to glimpse it at times.

This is where Hekate comes in. Hekate is the goddess of the crossroads. She is also the mistress of the magic arts, and is included in the grouping of the Moon goddesses. In ancient portraits she is shown to have three heads and they look in each of three directions.

When we are at a crossroads Hekate is there with her torch light and her ability to transcend both heaven and hell and her dwelling place on the earth. She can bring both the conscious mind and the unconscious mind together, and the need to live in day to day reality home to us. She is the one to go to for direction when we don’t know which path to take and which road makes the best choice.

Hekate uses the wise owl as her messenger and she relies on the willow tree for sustenance. She is a goddess of the Moon and when the Moon is dark she can use her torch for light and in search of the best pathway to take. When we need to make a hard decision for ourselves we are calling on Hekate for guidance, since she travels through the realms of sky, earth and Hades, the underworld.

Hekate is called the most lovely one of the Moon, and Hekate is there when a child is brought into the world, as she is the goddess associated with midwifery. When Ceres lost her daughter Persephone, Hekate used her torch to help Ceres look for her in the underworld. When we are unsure of ourselves or when the light around us is fading, and everything looks dark, we are traveling by night in the most metaphysical sense.

I believe that Hekate’s province as goddess of the crossroads led inevitably to her status as goddess of the magic arts. One would naturally lead to the other. Who better than Hekate would know how so often our indecision leads us to call upon the energies present in the universe to ask for help and guidance when we cannot figure out what to do. Once a decision has been made, asking the powers that be to help incarnate that desire would naturally fall upon, who better, the goddess who shows us all the different roads available to us.

Hekate is the 100th asteroid named and discovered on July 11, 1868. In her manifestation as 100 Hekate, her asteroid designation, she is the place we go to in our astrological charts to find out what we need to do to discern our direction in life. She is the also the place we go to find those parts of ourselves that were lost. When we are in need of using our magical selves to find or answer questions, Hekate as goddess of magic is there.

By looking up her placement in our charts we can see what astrological sign and house she occupies. Looking at my own chart I found that Hekate is in the 9th house, the house of religious belief and philosophy and law. She is exactly by 0 degrees square both Mercury, the mind, and Jupiter, the natural ruler of the 9th house. This tells me that at times I allow my conscious mind and my wish for how I want things to be to cloud my inner wisdom and natural thought. That when I need to find the place to go to for guidance I need to go to the 9th house. Perhaps I over analyze situations too much and do not allow the wisdom that can be found in religion and philosophy to tell me the answer.

To compound matters Hekate is in the sign of Cancer, a sign I have no other placements in. I am not personally familiar with the energy of Cancer, since while I have water signs in my chart, Cancer is not one. Perhaps this unfamiliar position is the one I need to learn from the most. Cancer is of course ruled by the Moon and represents feeling in its purest sense. So perhaps I need to use more Moon guidance in my discernment of the pathway, or perhaps I need to go emotionally on decisions and let the thought process be stilled, and use intuition more.

I know on the day I first began to become interested in Hekate, I looked up her current sign in the zodiac and she was at 0 Aries. 0 Aries is a power point sign, it is the world placement sign, and is the beginning of the spring solstice, a time of new beginnings for the earth as a whole. I believe Hekate is asking for notice and asking to speak to us. She is telling us she, not usually included in the more commonly known pantheon of goddesses, has been neglected for far too long.

Hekate entered the sign of Taurus on June 11, 2005, and will be there until April 9, 2006. In Taurus Hekate will be bringing her energy to Taurus symbolism. And what does Taurus symbolize? The greenery of the earth; planting, growing, creating beautiful gardens. Cooking, eating, enjoying the results of the fragrance of the seeds we put into the ground, and the nourishing foodstuffs we obtain from vegetables and fruits.

Taurus also rules our sensual side since Taurus is a sign that favors the five senses; taste, touch, sight, sound, aroma. Once Hekate enters Taurus it is a time to allow ourselves to experience the pleasures each of the five senses has to offer us, as we partake of the garden of life.

Letting ourselves feel secure enough to make the right decision is also a part of Hekate’s foray into Taurus, since Taurus is a very security minded and ‘I want to be risk-free’ sign. That’s good to know, too, since we will certainly make better decisions the more secure we feel.

As you learn who Hekate is, and what she has to tell you this year, you will discover a vast fountain of information you never knew she, or you, possessed.

http://www.llewellynjournal.com/article/853/

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How low can you go

Ana — Thu, 17 Apr 2008 15:25:19 GMT

What is the worst form of destructive behaviour you are pron to when things arent so great.

I mean your how deep is you low bottom, and how do you behave in a periods of intense pain, when you hurt so much you cant seem to „see the light“ out of the tunel

Are you prone to alchocol, drogs, self harm, suicide toughts, promiscuity behaviour.
How do you behave in your worst edition, or what was your worst edition in the past, when perhaps you werent very wise as you are today

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O, the guilt

Ana — Wed, 04 Jun 2008 18:58:20 GMT

Has anyone ever tortured you with the guilt?
And what signs were they

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How do YOU..as a Scopio know when you've met someone special?

Prince — Sat, 31 May 2008 13:52:19 GMT

How do YOU..as a Scorpio know when you've met someone special?

What do you see in their eyes?

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oh christ.

reverendave — Fri, 13 Jun 2008 02:11:52 GMT

i should just stop talking. i done went & got stoned. what the fuck am i talking about, again?

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Intense Dillusion

Sade — Wed, 11 Jun 2008 06:43:46 GMT

I love that I can write this and someone may read it...

I'm in a brooding mood. My friend is an Aries so.. you can imagine. -.- I'm all in my head at the moment and she's rabbiting away in the corner about her problems. I like how because I don't talk about them I don't have them.
Sure.
Right.

Sometimes I get so frustrated I wonder if I'm evil itself. I get so angry I realize I could quite happily massacre anyone I see. This does not help the self loathing.
At all.

What if that's who I am and I'm just coming to terms with it. Maybe i'm just like those killers you hear about except I haven't exploded yet. Maybe I'm Jeffery Dahmer in his early years.Or maybe there's killers that explode and killers that don't. Obviously you never hear about them because they lived like normal people with this black hole of anger inside. It's not that I'm a violent person. In fact I'm the opposite. I rarely become violent. I may throw things but I never hurt anyone. Maybe that's my problem. I get these little... flashes in my head when I'm angry. The thing is I'm never angry about events... I'm angry about a relationship. I'll be watching a film with friends and I'll drift off in thought and get angry over what she said to me last. Love is my vice above all others.

It's probably just the black dog.
You know you're messed up when you have a pet name for depression.
You especially know you're messed up when you're friends KNOW you're pet word and ask you if, "the black dog is around".
What the hell, Sade?
What the hell?

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Gossip and other world garbage

Ana — Sat, 07 Jun 2008 09:43:39 GMT

Scorpios usually seem mysterious. People dont know what to think about them, its hard for them to understand scorpios so they make up stories about them .
And since scorpios have a dark aura the stories are often bad.
I know you dont care what do people think or talk , but did you ever hear a really juicy story about yourself that made you laugh, if nothing else

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Scorpio where is your venus?

Pleasure Victim — Mon, 21 Apr 2008 01:43:43 GMT

Where is your venus?

Mine is in saggitarius. It makes me flirty, love the chase, and profoundly passionate! I am still jealous and possessive like all scorpios even if I don't mean too :-(. I love spontaneity and exicitement in my relationships. I like to surprise my mate. Go to museums, make art together, travel together, never have a dull and boring moment. I wouldn't trade my venus for anything!

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Seis (#6)

Chachi-Corrigan — Tue, 06 May 2008 05:34:04 GMT

Funky fun from days gone by-

http://youtube.com/watch?v=hsyT3FuKMpk

http://youtube.com/watch?v=3s3sRJCRW-k

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Ever feel like you're not approachable?

Prince — Sat, 31 May 2008 14:33:48 GMT

or hard to approach?

I find myself having to tune the intensity down when socializing...

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scorpios vs plutonians

AllanBeau — Sat, 31 May 2008 23:31:53 GMT

This is a question posted by ~Ghost.Girl~
last month at another tribe I run....

theoretical person A: all planets in Scorpio, no significant aspect from Pluto (major or minor).

theoretical person B: no planets in Scorpio but all aspected by Pluto.

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I'd like to know the difference between them.

Here was some responses....

he pluto aspected person may have to transform his life in a variety of ways. Pluto is all transformation!
everything will be constantly needed to be transformed and renewed!

the scorpio person may be overly secretive, overly-sexed, and may ahve fantastic healing abilities or may just be incredibly paranoid and possessive.

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when a planet is in Scorpio, it will act out through the Scorpio influence - e.g. Jupiter in Scorpio-will make a lot of use of sex, death, transformation processes, obsessions, power/control in defining its ideals and convictions. Might rise the Scorpionic issues to the rank of religion and road to illumination through knowledge.

when a planet, in whichever sign, is conjunct Pluto in the same sign, Pluto joins that planet in determining how it's going to express its energy - e.g. Jupiter conjunct Pluto in Virgo - the planets act as if they are "linked"-transformation(Pluto) cannot happen without knowledge and higher ideals(Jupiter), and knowledge and truth-maybe even luck-(Jupiter) cannot be reached without the use of deep transformation, facing fears, maybe facing control issues, maybe seeing sex as a means, not as a purpose etc.(Pluto)
And the sign they are in shows how these interactions take place. In this case, both Jupiter and Pluto being in Virgo, it might show that these two planets will operate through reason, analysis, observation, caution, service, self-preservation issues etc.

well, at least, that's the way I see it. I might be wrong...

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person A would likely be adept at handling "difficult" and/or crisis situations, as they arrived & even enjoy the challenge

person B would seem to have a life filled with "difficult" and/or crisis situations ~ it may take a bit longer for this person to make things work for him/her & to realize the eventual benefits without the natural Scorpio mindset ~ but a Scorpionic attitude is likely to eventually develop for practical reasons

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Let´s talk about death, baby

Ana — Thu, 29 May 2008 19:33:48 GMT

Recently we discussed about Pluto, scorpio ruler, and his correlation with death and regeneration.

I am curious, did you ever go trough some experience in you´re life, that has affected you on such a deep level, that you come out of it as a new person. And, was that related to painful,traumatic event or or did you generally come to conclusion that you cant go on living the way you do ,so you needed to kill a parts of yourself in order to survive and rise

So, did you ever experienced the whole, psychological transformation, a true personality change at its core .

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Psychic sponges

Ana — Sat, 31 May 2008 17:52:58 GMT

Do you feel like youre absobing energy of people around you?

Specially the negative energy, like you can feel it to strong, to overwhelming,in a way you can feel drained,exhausted just being in company of such ,negative oozing, people.
Do you sometimes have problem in being in crowded places or suranded by many people, and need a lot of space for solitude ,just being away from people by youre self.

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Bobbi and Aries –Scorpio reported missing

Ana — Sun, 11 May 2008 03:58:02 GMT

Hey people,
i just noticed that Bobbi and Aries –Scorpio have suddenly become unsuscribed on tribe.Do you know if they left, or what happen to change their status.Im little in the dark here, so please if you know something, do share

Thanx,
Ana

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Does Pluto Rule Scorpio or Aries?

AllanBeau — Thu, 15 May 2008 05:39:17 GMT

Does Pluto Rule Scorpio or Aries?

Ever since Pluto was discovered in the 1930, there has been a raging debate about whether Pluto ruled Scorpio or Aries. Currently, the majority of astrologers have assigned it to Scorpio and the 8th house. But there is still a minority opinion that it belongs to Aries. This confusion results from the ancient dual rulership of Mars for both Scorpio and Aries. Before the discovery of Uranus, the ancient rulerships were:

Moon Cancer-Leo Sun

Mercury Gemini-Virgo Mercury

Venus Taurus-Libra Venus

Mars Aries-Scorpio Mars

Jupiter Pisces-Sagittarius Jupiter

Saturn Aquarius-Capricorn Saturn

Astrologers immediately placed its rulership to Aquarius. The same happened to Neptune. Astrologers gave it rulership of Pisces and there was consensus. Only with Pluto has there been debate. From a geometric point of view, the assignment of Pluto to Aries would keep this pattern of rulership as follows:

Moon-Cancer, Sun-Leo, Mercury-Virgo, Venus-Libra, Mars-Scorpio, Jupiter-Sagittarius, Saturn-Capricorn, Uranus-Aquarius, Neptune - Pisces, Pluto- Aries, Venus - Taurus , Mercury - Gemini

Mercury is never more then a sign away from the Sun, Venus 2 signs... Moon is the reflection of the Sun.

Any thoughts?

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Scorpio and Mercury

Ana — Thu, 15 May 2008 14:44:00 GMT

The planet Mercury rules over intellectual energy, intelligence, memory, perception/reason, etc. so your Mercury sign determines how you think, your thought processes, etc. Mercury rules the zodiac signs of Gemini and Virgo.

If Mercury is *prominent* in your horoscope, then its positive aspects are that you are facile in speech, a good storyteller, clever, and shrewd, and you probably have a good memory, good debate qualities, and high-strung movements.
(If a planet is *prominent* in your horoscope that means that that planet is the ruling planet of your Sun sign, or perhaps it's the ruling planet of your Rising sign or Moon sign, OR maybe it's the ruler of your decanate, etc. In other words, a planet that is *prominent* in your horoscope just means that it plays a substantial role in your horoscope chart/birth chart.)

If Mercury is *afflicted* as well as being prominent, then Mercury has a negative influence. Mercury's negative influences include: lies, deceit, petty thievery, fraud, etc.
(An *afflicted* planet means that the planet in question is not in harmony with the other planets and thus has a negative influence.)
The House Mercury is in shows the particular area in which our mental talents are put to practical use. This is the area in which we realise our need to make contact and increase our learning.

It is connected with contacts to siblings, friends and people at school. Mercury represents our thoughts and the constant activity that goes on in our heads. It is connected to the nervous system and physical co-ordination.

The Sign Mercury lies in shows how we communicate and the psychological areas in which our mental talents lie. Mercury is the fastest of all planets and cleaves to the Sun, either being in the same Sign as the Sun or one of the Signs on either side of the Sun.

Aspects to Mercury show mental talents and communication styles in a very specific way. They indicate our individual interests and abilities

Sun in Scorpio-Mercury in Libra: Libra takes the edge off Scorpio's intensity and extremism, making these people more social and pleasant to be with.

In Libra, Mercury produces a mind that is well balanced, rational, and very judicial. You hate arguments and prefer to discuss issues or to reason together. You are polished in your expression, and this helps make you appear very diplomatic always. You may be very deeply concerned with human relations and psychology. You have a curiosity about people and the way they think. Getting along well with others is very central to your interests. You are easy to talk to because you listen with interest and you're honest in your response.

Although you are friendly and broad-minded, you can be stern when your principles are involved. Justice and balance are strong in your nature. You don't handle conflict all that well, and when people talk to you in a crude or uncouth manner, you back away and reject any contact, if you can.

You are really not readily adaptable to rapidly changing situations, because you have such a tendency to study issues so carefully before committing yourself. You must concentrate ever to attain a sense of expediency or decisiveness. Yet you can be counted on to relate fully both sides of any issue. Making a decision between two good options can be very difficult for you sometimes.

Sun in Scorpio-Mercury in Scorpio: Scorpio is typical here; the ego and thoughts are always focused and intense, and the desire nature rules.

In Scorpio, Mercury produces a mind that is secretive, investigative, and probing. Your method of expression is positive, and maybe a little intolerant, skeptical, and suspicious. A deep and penetrating thinker, you can dig in to the core of any issue with little wasted time or effort. You intuitive mind is capable of profound insights.

You are very good at keeping secrets. Plans and schemes are often carried on in secret. You are also very good at digging out secrets and getting to the bottom of complex issues. Thus, with this placement you may have the skills to become a detective, an investigator, or a researcher. There is much scientific ability with Mercury in Scorpio because of the innate curiosity. You are so perceptive that you "know" the unseen weaknesses and strengths of people with whom you come in contact. You have a way of seeking hidden truths and perhaps the hidden secrets of life itself.

You can be very incisive with your tongue or with your pen. Often using sharp language, you refuse to mince words or show much concern for the feelings of others. You either say exactly what you are thinking or you remain completely silent.
You can be very stubborn in your mental determination and tenacity. Your adaptability is limited in an intellectual sense because your highly emotional approach often has you prejudiced and focused on a set objective.

Sun in Scorpio-Mercury in Sagittarius: These Scorpios have a broader view of life and are generally more open or outspoken.

In Sagittarius, Mercury produces a mind that is independent, versatile, and roving. Your method of expression is impulsive, very direct, and sometimes argumentative. Yet you are social and very communicative with anyone who will listen. You may lack tolerance for the views of others when they depart from your own. You are something of an evangelist for your own opinions, and you love to get up on your "soapbox."

The natural tendency is for you to say exactly what is on your mind with little concern for fact or reality. You are impatient and don't always wait long enough to form a correct judgment. Yet people listen to you because you are interesting. Your wonderful imagination may make you a natural storyteller. You're good at improving on the truth.

Your senses are keen, but it can be hard for you to concentrate on any single subject for long periods of time. You can miss details because your focus is on the broad view.

Everything seems to interest you. You're particularly attracted to subjects that have significance beyond the everyday. You may enjoy philosophy, psychology, foreign cultures, or religion. Seeking deep understand of these broad subjects can occupy much of your thinking. You may become a lifelong student, because you never tire of learning and sharing knowledge. Forgetful and impractical, you mind may be like that of the preoccupied absent-minded professor.

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False Hope

Tue, 06 May 2008 14:17:24 GMT

I was conversating the other day with someone about "hope" He made the statement that "It's better to give someone false hope, than no hope at all." I haven't been able to get this thought out of my head and not sure how I feel about it. I was wondering what others feel about this. What are your viewpoints on "hope" or "false hope". And, in general, pertaining to any aspects of life, whether it be love, life/death, loosing something....anything that would knock the sense of being out of you if there were no hope at all....Could you get by on false hope for awhile and deal with it later or would that be a worse situation in the long run?

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So...

justme — Wed, 28 May 2008 00:24:44 GMT

I am starting to date a scorpio. My best friend is a scorpion, and I had one ex who was one as well.

I'm a little frightened! I know how intense you all can be!

The one I'm interested in is:

Scorpio sun, Cancer moon, Cancer ascendant, Virgo venus, Cancer mars, and Libra mercury

I am:

Virgo sun, Taurus moon, Gemini ascendant, Libra venus, Libra mars, and Leo mercury

As you can see, he has a ton more water than me, but I LOVE water signs, just haven't found the right one...

Any advice or suggestions?

Oh, and we both are single parents, so it gives us a pretty strong connection...

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Scorpios and sunny personalities

Lexie — Sun, 16 Mar 2008 02:30:59 GMT

I have been wondering...

Of all the Scorpios that I've known, they all say that they want a mate with a sunny, perky disposition.

And yet, I've seen these same Scorpios dumping their 'sunny' mates because they're not 'dark' enough.

Which do you prefer? A sunnier personality, or a personality that is more dark and cynical?

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What would make a Scorpio cheat?

Sunshine — Fri, 28 Mar 2008 17:39:26 GMT

What would drive you away from a lover and into the arms of another?

Lack of attention? Lack of trust? What?

If you've cheated, can you pinpoint the reason?

Curious.

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Speaking to strongly

WilsonWeaver — Sat, 17 May 2008 03:04:26 GMT

Hello all. I'm a Scorpio. When speaking about something I feel strongly about I pay to much attention to the quality of my feelings and sentiments and not enough to the magnitude. Often drastically. To make things worse my partner is super sensitive to criticism from those close to her, and especially around things in the neighborhood of letting me down. Any thoughts on how to build more mindfulness around this issue?

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Guarding against Jealousy

petra — Fri, 16 May 2008 15:12:10 GMT

Not sure where to post this,sorry...

A few Readings I've had, mentioned that there was jealous energy being projected at me from others, and that this could be interfering/blocking my happiness and love life. Could you pease tell me more about how jealousy affects the energy field, and the techniques/crystals used to heal my aura from that?

Thank you,
Petra

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Scorpio/year of the Tiger

carla — Mon, 21 Mar 2005 20:56:50 GMT

Are you out there? What are your most predominant characteristics?

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Sociopathic Personalities / Serial Murders

Ana — Mon, 05 May 2008 12:22:18 GMT

This research is made by Joanne Wickenburg,the long practicing astrolger.
Here is what she has to say.

„I already knew the FBI profile for serial murderers and had read many books on the subject. So I selected only charts of people who had committed more than one murder that was classified as a sex crime and fit the FBI profile. I researched the killers' bios to make sure their crimes fit within the parameters I had set.

I ended up with 44 clean charts of killers who fit the FBI profile of a serial murderer.
Now 44 charts does not a research project make; however it seemed to be enough to get an idea if something was going to show up. Here are some of the things that I found:

Thirty-one out of forty-four had sun or moon in Sagittarius or Capricorn. That's 74%. And while Gemini sun-signs stood out, only four of the Gemini's were not included in the Sagittarius/Capricorn moon group.
I suspected that I would find "signatures" that described men who were very intense, such as an emphasis of Moon in Scorpio. To my surprise, not one of these killers had Moon in Scorpio!

None of these people had the Moon in Scorpio. Was I surprised? You bet I was! In fact, only 9% had the Moon in a fixed sign. Only two people had the Sun in Scorpio.

There was only one Aquarius Moon; no Aquarian Suns.
I also found that 32% had the ruler of the ascendant in either Sagittarius or Capricorn. Everything kept going back to those same two signs.
In 41% of the cases the Moon was either the highest, most elevated or the lowest planet in the chart. Even though the interpretation of this may not be significant from a statistical perspective, the FBI profile of serial murderers places a strong emphasis on a dysfunctional family and issues around the mother (there I go interpreting).

Saturn was the most elevated planet in 25% of the charts. The Capricorn, Saturn, Moon, emphasis seem to be a strong signature. The mean-average of Saturn rising or in the 12th house would be 16%. In 38.5% of serial murders it was here.
For the Moon phases, 77.3% had the Sun and Moon within 45 degrees of the new or full moon. That was in both directions. Basically we are dealing with incredible differences. The first quarter phase and the third quarter phase were not well represented in the charts.
I did find that the Mars-Sun angle seemed to be significant. Of these people, 56.8% were born when the Sun was within 45 degrees on either side of Mars. On a mean-average it is about 25%. We are finding more than double of what we should expect to find.

55.4% had Pluto between the ascendant and the MC. That is interesting from an interpretive perspective. Pluto has to do with what we are living out in terms of where we are on the social evolutionary cycle of things, and how we, as individuals, are contributing to either the evolution or destruction of mankind. 73% had Pluto in the northern half of the chart.

I suspected to find more of the personal planets retrograde, because retrogrades ask us to look at who we are and understand how we differ from the masses. I was surprised to discover no significant emphasis of retrogrades. On the average, 19% of all people have Mercury retrograde in their charts. 22.7% of the serial murderers did. Not enough to be significant.

On an average 37.5% of the people have Saturn retrograde in their charts. 50% of the serial murderers did. From my calculations 41.6% of the people had Uranus retrograde and 59% of the serial murderers had Neptune retrograde. I expected to find an emphasis of Venus and Mars retrograde. Actually they were retrograde less frequently than average. However, I did find an interesting emphasis of Mars and Venus in New and Balsamic phase, while none of these people had this planetary pair in full phase.“

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Animal Totems

Sat, 26 Apr 2008 17:53:04 GMT

http://www.animaltotem.com/

Fascinating subject dealing with spirituality, btw.

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Libra Male Grrrrr

mel — Thu, 08 May 2008 07:39:03 GMT

I'm kinda just venting here. Sorry!
As a Scorpio I take a lot of pride in seeing the hidden in others actions and words. My pride recently took a beating by a Libra.
I've never met a man that lied as much as he does, CHEATS, and then tries to sweet talk his way back into my good graces. He ozzes charm... ass!
I really want it to be over and I've even told him that but he manages to duck and dodge his way out of my sting. How?! I haven't a clue. If I ignore his texts or calls he shows up. If I ignore him while we're out (I don't go out with him we run in the same group of friends) he makes a big production in front of all our friends to "prove" his sincerity (though I know the guy doesn't have a sincere bone in his body). I just don't understand why he goes out of his way for me then behind my back cheats... with several woman. He even bought one of the girls a very expensive gift. I've yelled and screamed, told him it was over, told him to drop dead and he STILL comes back with in a couple days trying to win me over.
So is this a fairly common Libra thing or did I somehow manage to find the most rotten SOB on the planet? Advice please?
I'm not a weak person and I don't understand how this is happening. It boggles my mind.

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