hey guys, it's been a strange life-altering year of change and transformation/ near death + regeneration. Well, i'm alive again, and on the prowl :)... some discussion would be nice... (btw, i've never had a 'real' girlfriend... i'm 21, a virgin too, and I can be very shy... but i'm VERY passionate)
three girls are all over my mind as of late. A gemini, virgo, and cancer. I want the gemini the most, but I can't have her at this time because she's gone for the summer. The virgo is so interesting and secretive... we keep crossing paths and she keeps opening up a little more to me, and it's VERY intriguing. It's like virgo knows my secret... The cancer lives in my complex, and I got her alone from a party and we laid next to each other under the stars for quite a while, just getting high, talking, and being awkward (in an interesting, equal way).. i'm so enchanted by all of them...
I guess I don't really have an exact question, I just wanna talk about desire to bond with love and sex. Like i've said, I've recently regenerated from what could have easily been my death, and I'm really interested in sexual union/love now; like i'm ready for it... I don't know how else to explain it. It's like I was a different person in the past, but after this life-altering experience i'm something different... all these girls look at me and treat me in a way i'm not used to. So ya, any of you with experience I would love your words... thanx!
three girls are all over my mind as of late. A gemini, virgo, and cancer. I want the gemini the most, but I can't have her at this time because she's gone for the summer. The virgo is so interesting and secretive... we keep crossing paths and she keeps opening up a little more to me, and it's VERY intriguing. It's like virgo knows my secret... The cancer lives in my complex, and I got her alone from a party and we laid next to each other under the stars for quite a while, just getting high, talking, and being awkward (in an interesting, equal way).. i'm so enchanted by all of them...
I guess I don't really have an exact question, I just wanna talk about desire to bond with love and sex. Like i've said, I've recently regenerated from what could have easily been my death, and I'm really interested in sexual union/love now; like i'm ready for it... I don't know how else to explain it. It's like I was a different person in the past, but after this life-altering experience i'm something different... all these girls look at me and treat me in a way i'm not used to. So ya, any of you with experience I would love your words... thanx!
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Re: scorpio wonders about girls and sex...
Tue, July 1, 2008 - 1:27 AMyou go for it, in full force
sounds like a great beginning of new life
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Tue, July 1, 2008 - 1:35 AMRad its good to hear from you again brotha. I'm happy you are healthy and well. All the best to you :)
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Tue, July 1, 2008 - 1:38 AMI know life has been - extenuating, but take your time with it. When you are not looking, is when she will come up and bite you on your.....
you can't have all three, even if you are cute.
thus saith thee ol man.
:)
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Tue, July 1, 2008 - 1:46 AMGet to know them all. Find out if THEY are virgins. Be mindfull of becoming jealous and possessive although Cancer may like this sort of thing a little bit. Learn how to kiss. And always use protection.I would go for the Virgo chick first.- I think you can easily win the Cancer girl. - I never got close enough to a Gemini to know much about them. They might be easy too. Have fun. Dont use porn as a guide on how to make love other than learning 'positions'. Dont marry the first girl that busts your cherry. -
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Tue, July 1, 2008 - 1:18 PMfun, foreplay and more foreplay. Don't worry it will happen just go with the flow! -
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Tue, July 1, 2008 - 5:01 PMha.. thanks guys, good advice!.. I don't want all three, just one...
Why do you think Virgo's are so magnetic and interesting? This particular girl will have guys all over her at a party (she's very sexy), but whenever I look at her from across the room she looks at me than quickly looks away... I go back and forth thinking this girl likes me than doesn't. I wanna know so bad what's going on with her, and what she really thinks about me... Just why it is that my thoughts keep drifting back to her is what makes me want to know so bad... I managed to get her somewhat secluded once and she was so wide-eyed starring at me... so dizzying and pure!
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Tue, July 1, 2008 - 11:22 PMI bet she looks at you this way because you are different from other men and she notices this. Perhaps you are the strong silent type. The virgos I know seem to like this quality.
I have been instantly attracted to some women and later on I find out they are virgo. I think somehow, they got our number........ but the good news is we also have theirs. Its that scorp/ virgo chemistry , baby!!
Sounds like you still haven't broken any ice with this girl though. Why dont you ask her out for coffee? Show her that you find her interesting. Be yourself and let her find out what a deep guy you are. Too much intensity early on scares the shit out of them, though. watch out for that. -
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Wed, July 2, 2008 - 2:31 PMRegarding magnetic and interesting...maybe its because
shes unavailable ... maybe she looks away quickly cause you are
staring too much, anyway you are over-thinking all this ---
next time you're at a party with her, go up, and
whisper in her ear that shes the most exotic animal you've ever seen and
you want to do her tiger style..then walk waway and act like chips and dip
interest you,,,then if shes interested then she'll come over, gaurented... -
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Wed, July 2, 2008 - 2:38 PMnext time you're at a party with her, go up, and
whisper in her ear that shes the most exotic animal you've ever seen and
you want to do her tiger style..then walk waway and act like chips and dip
interest you,,,then if shes interested then she'll come over, gaurented...
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Are you serious? -
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Wed, July 2, 2008 - 2:41 PMNo, but then wondering about someone from a distance
and thinking theres a connection is even stupider...
and sometimes wondering if something is serious
or some joke has led to some interesting moments, wouldn't you agree ? -
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Wed, July 2, 2008 - 5:31 PM*Signs hanging above their respective heads*
Caution: Virgo
Poison: Gemini
Slow: Cancer
If I had to rule out one entirely, and only based on Sun Sign, I'd say Gemini *eek and ugh and my head hurts*
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Wed, July 2, 2008 - 5:43 PMno, I wouldn't agree....
because wondering and dreaming and going with the flow is beautiful -
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Re: scorpio wonders about girls and sex...
Thu, July 3, 2008 - 12:25 PM..I'm Sag Rising so I'm not much of a "dreamer " and "go with the flow-er"; much too logical and probing.....
thus my cynicism ; )
in the end, you should, indeed, do what feels best for you and if "courting" all three of these women is what feels good to you - by all means....DO IT
asking for advice is often overrated - one must follow one's instinct and desires regardless of the risks involved - life is about living, not asking about it. : )
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Fri, July 4, 2008 - 10:20 PMNo, but then wondering about someone from a distance
and thinking theres a connection is even stupider...
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Yesterday I agreed with you.
Today, I'm thinking it's best to keep my distance.
There's something to be said for not destroying a perfectly good dream with reality.
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Sat, July 5, 2008 - 11:27 AMWhen someone sees someone at a distance and fantasizes,
it can lead to a murky area in the mind,,
sometimes what seems unavailable,
we don't know about the possibilities in a connection ...
what I was getting at is then there is a time to
find out,,,letting it sit in a twilight zone and thinking there is
a connection, can lead to illusions,,if its one sided...
a one sided illusion thats a projection is just a fantasy, thinking someone who gives a glance and then looks away isn't a good reason to project a relationship...
,if there is an attraction then it takes two people,
and then the reality can be quite fun, interesting...
with two people involved theres inter-action...
and nobody knows till some one makes the first move,
so, if you think theres something there,
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Tue, July 15, 2008 - 1:55 PMI'm trying to break free of mental barriers i've built in the past. Attempting to shed away traumatic events that make me 'protect' myself. Love is one of the scariest things in my mind of past, because I fear someone being able to see all my flaws... be it the ones engrained in my skin or engrained in my mind. I see that this fear is me being scared of myself, so I must break free to embrace myself more fully. I used to hate myself so much, but it's not true anymore. I love myself, and I want to share. To feel what it means to be alive and love...
I slept with the Cancer one night recently. She said she wanted me to stay with her, and it made me happy because I wanted to be with her... now my mind is trying to revert back to old ways; trying to avoid her in my skewed idea of self-defense from rejection. I've always feared others rejecting me. This defense mechanism i've created doesn't need to apply anymore...
I only write to try and find my way through my self-created illusion. I must destroy this shadow self that controls my mind. She appears in my dreams a lot now, and I need to know more...
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Sat, July 5, 2008 - 6:02 AMJust be casual at first, no pressure. Ask her out for coffee or something innocent like that. A little light conversation to test the waters. Save the intensity for the right moments. -
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Mon, July 7, 2008 - 8:03 AM".- I think you can easily win the Cancer girl. -" !
What's up with that?!
Winning a Cancer girl is never easy, not even for a Scorpio, actually in so many ways that's your match buddy! A Leo chick is your second match.
And if she isn't a virgin at least she'll understand your virgionic pace --- which is slow... it just comes natural for Cancers.
The virgo woman will probably criticize you, personally they annoy me to no end, and the gem chick will bail on you as soon as you start attaching yourself Scorpio! -
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Thu, July 10, 2008 - 12:17 AMI have been able to easily win cancer girls . I thought perhaps it would be the same for this young chap. You tell me "whats up with that?" but you also say that it is his perfect match?
so whats up with that?
I wish we weren't trying to criticise each others' tips for this kid. (I am old) -
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Thu, July 10, 2008 - 12:20 AMhow ancient are you? (i am old too) lol. -
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Thu, July 10, 2008 - 7:59 AMI am as old as time itself ;D so old I fart dust *poof*
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Thu, July 10, 2008 - 8:14 AMcareful, them scorpio gals will bite your neck n suk yer blood partner ... -
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Mon, July 14, 2008 - 7:10 AM"I wish we weren't trying to criticise each others' tips for this kid. (I am old)"
Oops,
I didn't mean to sound critical, but I am a Cancer girl so I got a little bit defensive ; ) - and I know that I am far from an easy win..
was just trying to offer another perspective, I can be an opinionated little runt, I blame it on the Sag asc... cool?
".............but you also say that it is his perfect match?
so whats up with that?"
lol... I guess I don't look at an easy win as a perfect match for anyone, but even more so for a Scorpio... they need a challenge...
or perhaps you meant easy win because Cancer girls love Scorpio men so much.. I agree totally, but the words easy win and Cancer just sent off an alarm...
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Mon, July 14, 2008 - 7:56 AM"I am as old as time itself ;D so old I fart dust *poof* "
LOL! :D
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Tue, July 15, 2008 - 2:43 AMI understand and agree with you now, Sunshine. I am sorry if it sounded like I was implying that Cancer girls are easy. Nothing worth having is ever really easy to get. I guess that I was thinking about the " success rate". I believe scorps and cancer are one of the best combinations. I am sorry that I got your alarm to go off. ( my words seem to un-intensionally piss people off lately. Call me 'captain backfire')
"I can be an opinionated little runt"
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Mon, July 21, 2008 - 10:13 AMhey, don't sweat it old man X D
"I admire that"
thank you, now I feel all warm inside, like a pumpkin pie
Many a Cancer lady, eh? -
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Wed, July 23, 2008 - 11:51 PM" Many a Cancer lady, eh?"
I have been lucky to have been with 3. And the one girl whom I totally get along with the most and has taught me alot about how to treat and respect women, My awesome little sister Linz. is a Cancer girl, too.
punkin' pie in summer? very unique!
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Re: scorpio wonders about girls and sex...
Mon, July 21, 2008 - 9:27 AMA wise man once told me"there is no how, no why, just do". lay down your arms, accept the flow and much will flow your way, young man. As an old geezer, I get asked "if Ihad to do it all over again whould I?". you are there NOW, where all the old guys were then. As for personal thoughts on the signs, Virgros never been a bad fit, Cancer is a very nice flow and Gemini will be wonderfull but make you nuts, 2 for the price of one.
