Most compatible sign as Scorpio

topic posted Sat, September 27, 2008 - 12:55 AM by  scasco
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OK people, I saw a topic like this on the Libra tribe, and I thought it would be about time that I saw one on the Scorpio tribe. We all know the technicalities of things like full natal charts, genetic makeup, enviornmental influences, etc, that contribute to a person's overall psychological makeup, and that astrological Sun signs don't tell the whole story, etc, etc. But we'll trudge on, anyway. So, here we go. As a Scorpio type, who do you feel the most compatible with? Who do you feel the least compatible with? For me here's a quick rundown:

-Signs of people I find to have frequently smooth compatibility with:
Cancers, Virgos and Scorpios
(I find many people of these three signs end up in my life, usually as friends, and/or best friends. We often attract one-another as friends, and/or lovemates. There are a small few people from each of these signs, where I had to deal with hardship, but the ratio is higher in the positive than the negative.)


-Signs of people I find to have frequently decent compatibility with (as some are smooth, others I can't stand): Aries, Sagittarius, Aquarius
(I've had quite a few friends of each of these three signs as well. Although this one is pretty divided - for the few that I shared a strong connection with, there were just as many that I couldn't stand one bit, most particularly with Aries, and least particularly with Aquarius. The ratio here is about even.)

-Signs of people I find to have the most frequent challenges with: Gemini.
(I'm not even sure I'm *fully* aware of the reason why, but it hardly *ever* works out between me and Gemini's - not as friends, and *much* less as lovemates. Most Gemini's I've met caused me more pain, heartache, and aggravation than any other sign I can think of. Part of it is because I'm more intense and consistent with my thoughts and feelings; most Gemini's I've dealt with have short attention spans, have low boredom thresholds, and have to be *constantly* stimulated, which causes them to be aggravatingly flighty. And their moods (if that's what they are) change too much for my liking. But, the worst thing of all, is that they are extremely untrustworthy, and trust is a *major* issue with me. There were only one or two Gemini's that I've met, thus far, who seem to counter all of these traits listed above.

The other signs I mentioned I'm not so sure how I feel about them: they don't particularly fall into any of the patterns listed above. Thus far:
-Taurus: never had much (if any) particularly memorable things with them.
-Leos: again, there was never anything too noteworthy with anyone here (some are pretty cool, some are pretty obnoxious). I had a major crush on a Leo girl once (and she was into me as well) - breathtakingly gorgeous, but she was *far* too flighty, and inconsistent for my tastes (probably her Gemini moon influence.)
-Libras: again, most I've met, never did a whole lot for me (Ha, and this is *my* Sun sign.) The first girl who ever had a crush on me was a Libra. But, she, like most of the Gemini's Iisted above, was too inconsistent and flighty for my tastes. At my job, we got a new supervisor, he's a Libra, and it turns out, that *all* of his personal planets are in Libra, except Mars (which is in Gemini.) He wastes so much of his hot air talking, boasting and trying to look good, it's annoying. But, I actually have a strong friendship with one Libra (but he's a Scorpio moon and mercury.) We can talk about anything - light or deep - and we understand each other so well.
-Capricorn: In a strange way, I feel like we are, in some ways, *too* much alike, and in the one sense, there could be something of a stand-still. Potential friends I have found to have this Sun sign.
-Pisces: Some are the best people you'd hope to be with; almost like a dream come true. Others can be so inconsistent, lost, (and others, annoyingly whiny and illogical, that it kills any momentum.)

Keep in mind, with everything I listed, I'm not saying that *everyone* of a particular sign or influence falls into the patterns I listed above. This is in regards to people I've actually met, had relationships or friendships with, or talked to in person. There's always going to be exceptions. Anyway, I'd be glad to hear other people experiences with the signs of the zodiac. LOL!
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  • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

    Sat, September 27, 2008 - 2:42 AM
    I'm going to speak for my Scorpio friend lol, by what he's told me before. I'm not a Scorpio myself though.

    He said that he feels that Cancers are good people and make good friends, but he's not attracted to them romantically. He thought they were 'cold' sexually like Geminis and Aquariuses (his words not mine lol).

    And Virgos make good friends for him, and he even lost his virginity to a Virgo female.

    The best sexual partners he's had were other Scorpios and Pisces. But long-term relationships with other Scorpios didn't work out for him. His best long-term relationships were with Pisces.

    And Geminis are liars (lol his words).

    Also he's had a relationship with an Aries and it ended really bad, and they pretty much hate each other now.

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      Sat, September 27, 2008 - 5:10 AM
      Pisces, sad little minnows.
      Float bright shiny objects and watch them lunge.

      Virgos, they were just ok.

      Gemini, good to party/hang with, gotta suss out the good one's.

      Libra, only useful as bait for pisces, both gross.

      Sag's, kapow sex, when they are so inclined.

      Fellow Scorpios, oh God yes, sex, relationships, friends, like hand to glove.

      My words.
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        Sat, September 27, 2008 - 6:28 AM
        yeah there nuthin like scorpio on scorpio sex or scorpio on sagg. sex

        kapow is right

        venus in scorpio is good too, within that mix
        • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

          Sat, September 27, 2008 - 11:41 AM
          Scorpio on Scorpio is animalistic.
          The connection can be felt on so many levels.

          I have Sun Moon and Venus in Scorpio
          and due to that some of my playmates
          seem to feel a bit overwhelmed by me.
          Even the Scorpio sun ones.

          I find the more placements they have in Scorpio
          the better we connect.

          Then again, a bit of herb and some drinks
          tends to transcend all boundaries and limitations.
          • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

            Sat, September 27, 2008 - 12:48 PM
            you said carmela

            i agree
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              Sat, September 27, 2008 - 1:35 PM
              Synergy, what are your favorite signs for females (potential gf's)? lol :)
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                Sat, September 27, 2008 - 1:42 PM
                water signs or women with lot of water in the chart

                last good complimentary relationship was a pisces woman
                i dont see her anymore

                just broke up with an aries which was not good, overall
                fire evaporates my water too much
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                  Sat, September 27, 2008 - 2:05 PM
                  It sounds like pretty much how my Scorpio friend feels. He prefers Pisces girls overall. He wants to start a relationship with me. Even his close male friend is a Pisces lol.

                  I think it also depends on the sex.. because a lot of Scorpio men like me, but Scorpio women don't seem to like me as much lol. Maybe they see Pisces as 'weak' or something, idk. Or maybe it's just the 'cattiness' girls have with each other sometimes haha :D

                  lol The funny thing about my friend is that he's a Scorpio Sun, Mercury, and Uranus.. and an Aquarius Moon. But he told me he thinks Aquariuses are cold and 'sexless' like Geminis (in his words). He doesn't know he's an Aquarius Moon though (and I don't have the heart to tell him lol) :) He's not into astrology like I am, so he only goes by Sun signs lol.
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                    Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

                    Sat, September 27, 2008 - 2:25 PM
                    Oh yeah and he said the reason he prefers Pisces and Scorpios for sex is because they're 'perverts' like he is lol! He's had the wildest sex with both. He told me sometimes I even 'scare' him when I show him my sexual side :D Of course that's being scared in a good way lol :)
                • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

                  Sun, September 28, 2008 - 3:04 AM
                  SYNERGY

                  Yesterday, 1:42 PM
                  water signs or women with lot of water in the chart

                  last good complimentary relationship was a pisces woman
                  i dont see her anymore

                  just broke up with an aries which was not good, overall
                  fire evaporates my water too much

                  Synegy I find it interesting that you say this. Me knowing that you have Sun and Mercury in Sagittarius at your birth. Because girls with a lot of water in their chart can be a little crazy for a fire guy or any guy for that matter. On what level do you understand them? You only have Venus and Jupiter in Scorp. I know a lot of water girls myself and I at sometimes can not even begin to grasp a water girls true nature and concept. Even with that myself having Sun and Merc in Cancer. I get the you understand me on a different level thing and we go together like peanut butter and jelly thing from a lot from them. With the occasional figures crossed and head shake from them with the we are close plus eye wink. Maybe for you it is like me with the earth girls with a lot of fire in them. I know a Leo sun girl who is all water Moon, riser, Mars and Jupiter(Pisces Scorpio). She is a dreaming Sun outwardly being in a Neptunian state. She makes me laugh and smile all the time even still I have no attraction to her. What it is it that draws you to us Water Suns? Do you go beyond the aspects or does your sun in 1 degree Sagittarius trine us. Doubt it highly. lol. I feel no trine from you My sun is In Cancer 10...
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                    Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

                    Sun, September 28, 2008 - 6:53 AM
                    card - in correct , not sure where you got your info .
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                      Thu, October 2, 2008 - 10:39 PM
                      synerGy

                      Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio
                      synerGy
                      Sun, September 28, 2008 - 6:53 AM

                      “card - in correct , not sure where you got your info “.

                      Well you know where I got my info from because you deleted your birth info topic in the sagg tribe, after I posted the above. I do have witnesses that inquired within. You have Sagittarius Sun, Gemini Rising, with a Virgo Moon remember. Don’t lie to me or my friends. I could have added the link to my original post. But I decided to show mercy on you. Ive been on tribe for about 2 years now, unsubscribed and then came back. You used to admit being a sagg/scorp now you say you are a scorpio sun, this is a lie. I see through you synergy. Remember this about me, that what you ask for you will get…
                      • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

                        Fri, October 24, 2008 - 4:26 PM
                        Hello!

                        Well, couldn't a person's sun sign depend, in part, on the astrological system they subscribes to; Tropical or Sidereal?

                        I mean, with the more arcane Vedic/Sidereal system (Sidereal being the system i like best, and personally believe to be more accurate) a person born with a Sun in Sag (tropical) will in actuality have a Sun in Scorpio (en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Side...astrology) because, technically speaking, the sun is visibly traveling through the constellation Scorpius (or Ophiuchus) during the days of November 16 - December 15.

                        And if Synergy has his Sun on the Cusp of Sco/Sag (22 second of the month - give or take a few days) then he has the characteristics of both signs and thus can choose to identify with whichever one he feels is more dominate.

                        Either way, Card, the dude is a Scorpio.
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                          Fri, October 24, 2008 - 4:57 PM
                          Mary I know the differences between the sidereal and tropical systems.
                          My point being was that he posted his chart in the sagg tribe with his sun in sagg. That’s enough for me to question someone saying they are a scorp and then won’t mention anything about having sun in sagg. Plus he never answered if that was a sidereal or tropical chart after I questioned him. He only deleted his post and denied what I said.

                          Another thing is when someone does their chart and planet is in 0 degrees a sign it is in that sign. So Synergy having Sun in Sag 0 degrrees does not give him a Scorpio Sun the chart will show Sun in Sagittarius. No matter what chart system he used in his post..
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    Sat, September 27, 2008 - 5:16 AM
    Virgo, of course, is the obvious choice for the sloppy Scorpy who lives like a caveman, in apartments filled with litter & debris! Then there will be ORDER, then a nice home-environment will replace the abode where one might suspect some sort of dung-beetle have resided! Yes there will be friction, yes there will be bickering. But see the steely determination in the Maidens eye, she knows that even old crawlers with bad tempers can be taught lessons if just the will is firm enough! I think most Scorpys like this kind of HARSHNESS, it can balance creatures that´s pulling in the other direction using emotional tantrums & create harmony. A perfect match made in hea..(or maybe a place further south)!
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      Sat, September 27, 2008 - 5:21 AM
      Virgos are Maids?
      Wonderful.
      Gotta start fucking more and letting them
      actually stay the entire night
      so they can clean my apartment
      in the AM.

      Which sign cooks the best?
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        Sat, September 27, 2008 - 6:23 PM
        watch out.
        They may want you to call them afterwords....
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          Sat, September 27, 2008 - 7:02 PM
          Friends: Scorpio, Cancer, Pisces, Virgo & Capricorn. They are all good friends and have a great sense of humor which I love.

          Best sexual partners and relationships: Pisces (married to one) and Capricorn. So I do feel that these signs are most compatible, at least in the experiences I have had.

          I enjoy hanging out with Aries, Sag and Aquarius…they are a lot of fun.

          Indifferent: Leo, Taurus & Libra

          Gemini: I really don’t understand (at least the ones I know). I enjoy their conversation, and it isn’t that I dislike them at all; I just find them frustrating at times. Most of them I know and have met seem as though they are really interesting people, but they are too confusing for me. EVERY single one I know constantly changes their mind about EVERYTHING…I drives me completely insane. One day it’s this, the next day it’s that. I affectionately call my brother in law “Changes Mind”, who is a true Gemini in every sense of the word.

          My daughter who is 3 is a Virgo. Ironically enough, I can already see the "neat freak" in her.
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            Sat, September 27, 2008 - 7:12 PM
            "Friends: Scorpio, Cancer, Pisces, Virgo & Capricorn. They are all good friends and have a great sense of humor which I love."

            My best friend is a Capricorn Sun, Scorpio Moon :) She's awesome, and she does have a great sense of humor too :D
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              Sat, September 27, 2008 - 7:25 PM
              Yeah, it’s kind of a running joke in the family. “What’s it going to be this month with him?” A couple of months ago he gave up drinking alcoholic beer??? This from a man that is a beer connoisseur? He actually tried to convince me that O’Doul’s was actually good? Last month I saw him and he was drinking a Skull Crusher…see what I mean or how long that lasted. Pretty funny and EXTREMELY hard NOT to make fun of, love him to death though.

              My best friend is actually a Scorpio Sun and Cap Rising…just like me  She is hysterical.
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                Sat, September 27, 2008 - 7:38 PM
                I think one of the reasons I find my friend so funny is because she comes across as very cautious and reserved (probably because she's a Cap Sun, maybe because of her Scorp Moon too), but once she comes out of her 'shell' she's one of the funniest people you could ever know! And a lot of people probably don't even get to see that side of her. lol :)
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                  Sat, September 27, 2008 - 7:46 PM
                  I have been told that I am very unapproachable and come across very reserve, conservative and actually shy (hence my Cap rising). But people have said the same thing about me that you are saying about your friend; once I let my hair down, I can be pretty funny.
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                    Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

                    Sat, September 27, 2008 - 8:19 PM
                    Yes that's just how my friend sounds lol :)

                    I'm actually similar in some ways too.. pretty reserved and shy when I first meet people, then once I get to know them and trust them I let my guard down and let loose :D I'm a Pisces Sun, Cancer rising.. so probably my Cancer rising makes me cautious with people at first.
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    Tue, September 30, 2008 - 8:36 PM
    Speaking from my experience with the other astrological signs...

    Aries: These are a lot of fun and I get along really well with them, but there's no connection on a deeper level.

    Taurus: These people are very stable, there is a connection on a deeper level, they're easy to talk to and get advice from, they're very understanding, they're pretty serious, and they tend to bore me.

    Gemini: They're fun to be around, very loud people, great sense of humor, they're always up to try something new, quick wit, stimulating conversations, but no deeper connection. I am surrounded by Geminis, but am not interested in them relationship wise.

    Cancer: Serious and quiet from what I have observed. Plus, they're good listeners. I get along really well with them as far as friendship goes. I haven't dated a Cancer yet so we'll see. :)

    Leo: For the most part, I don't get along with Leos. I dated one for 5 years and it was absolutely horrible. I do have a Cancer/Leo cusp friend and I do get along really well with her.

    Virgo: I get along really well with Virgos. They're adventurous, very fun people to be around with, very carefree, etc.

    Libra: I don't know why, but I love Libras. lol. They're very charming, great sense of humor, always up for anything, but I can't stand the undecisiveness. Ugh. lol.

    Scorpio: I get along with Scorpios really well and I think it has a lot to do with my sun sign being in Scorpio.

    Sagittarius: I get along really well with Saggs. They're very carefree and they love to travel which I also love to do.

    Capricorn: I've only met a total of two Capricorns so far and one really annoyed me. The second one was a little boring. There was no deeper connection.

    Aquarius: One of my really good friends is an Aquarian and we get along like two peas in a pod. He can be insensitive at times though. Other than that, we finish each other's sentences.

    Pisces: They are very nice people, easy to get along with, but I can never find myself liking them as more than friends.

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      Wed, October 1, 2008 - 9:00 AM
      "Aquarius: One of my really good friends is an Aquarian and we get along like two peas in a pod. He can be insensitive at times though. Other than that, we finish each other's sentences."

      My ex-bf is an Aquarius :) And surprisingly we connected pretty well (even though I'm a water sun sign and he's not lol). The only reason I left him was because he had a tendency to be abusive and controlling.. but I think that had to do with his bad childhood.
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        Wed, October 1, 2008 - 9:20 AM
        Oh yeah and my current 'love interest' guy friend is a Scorpio Sun, Aquarius Moon :))
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          Wed, October 1, 2008 - 9:36 AM
          my current love interest is Rosie Palm
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            Wed, October 1, 2008 - 9:39 AM
            haha! Rosie Palm and her 5 sisters? :D
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              Wed, October 1, 2008 - 9:53 AM
              how on earth did you know heathuh ???

              shazam !
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                Wed, October 1, 2008 - 10:08 AM
                It must be that water sign connection thing we always hear so much about.. (Either that, or the fact that most water sign people have a dirty mind lol) :)
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                  Thu, October 2, 2008 - 7:04 PM
                  I said in the original post that there was nothing memorable with Taurus. I was slightly wrong. Turns out 2 out of the 3 girls who I fell deeply for may have had Taurus moons (I'm not sure of their exact birth times, but the moon changed into Taurus in the afternoon hours of both respective girls' birthdays.) What I like about Taurus-type personalities is their calm, steady and solid-as-a-rock/in-control/'not-easily-shaken-or-so-it-seems' personality - something I almost envy, as my own inner temperament (as a Scorpio-type) is more...well....not so calm. Judging by their personalities, they fit more with Taurus, than Aries. The one Gemini friend I have (who I can actually get along with) has a Taurus moon.
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                    Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

                    Fri, October 3, 2008 - 2:19 AM
                    Hmmm..

                    Aries... love em! I'm dating one now and I love that go gettem attitude. The men are so macho. The women are a bit over the top. ME ME ME. But overall I like the fire and passion

                    Taurus... good for friends but thats it. I find them to be a little dull "slow" too laid back for me.

                    Aquas.... don't know any.

                    Gemini... I just puked in my mouth a little. Blech!! The women are horrible backstabbers! HORRIBLE! The men are just plain wierd. I don't even know how to describe it. Ew.

                    Cancers.... *sigh* my fellow water sign. Our brothers and sisters.... just grow a pair! The men are sissies, whiners and moody bawl babies. Women are manipulative naggers. Sorry! But for me I have nothing but pity and disgust how weak some of the cancers I knew were.

                    Leos... They're pretty funny actually. I always get a good laugh at them

                    Virgo... my archilles heel. To this day my heart won't ever be the same after a Virgo. I hate him as much as I love him. So smart and quick. I never understand why anyone would say they are dull. The women though have little to be desired.

                    Libra... can be good but I can't stand how they gloss everything over to make things pretty. A turd can be painted, decorated, glittered up... but in the end it's still a chunck of shit. Libras could learn from that.

                    Scorps.... I'm biased. Love em of course but I can't get along with the males. I guess we're too much alike.

                    Sags... fun fun fun. Not for relationships though

                    Caps... My first love. So shrewd and serious and that humor! Good people

                    Pisces... see above... same as Cancers.
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                      Fri, October 3, 2008 - 6:13 AM
                      "Cancers.... *sigh* my fellow water sign. Our brothers and sisters.... just grow a pair! The men are sissies, whiners and moody bawl babies. Women are manipulative naggers. Sorry! But for me I have nothing but pity and disgust how weak some of the cancers I knew were.

                      Pisces... see above... same as Cancers."


                      The only person who ever made me break down and cry because of her harshness, and telling me I need to grow up and be a 'real woman' and only use my intellect and don't ask for compassion, etc. was a fellow Pisces =/ So that one was hard and cold, she was anything but weak.
                      My sister's a Pisces too, and she would almost duke it out with my ex-bf sometimes lol :D She never lets anyone walk all over her. And she's definitely not a manipulative nagger.
                      My mom's a Cancer and she does tend to be moody, but she's not weak by any means.
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                        Fri, October 3, 2008 - 6:56 AM
                        Oh and the fact that the one Pisces said she would 'smash me into pieces literally' didn't help either lol (and of course all this was over a guy =/). I think because she was another water sign so she could get to that deep, cutting, emotional level that most people aren't able to get to. Most people are pretty 'transparent' and so I'm able to easily let go whatever negative things they say and just ignore it and roll my eyes. But I'm not a weak crybaby either, lol like I said she was the only person to be able to get me to break down and cry with just her words.
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                          Fri, October 3, 2008 - 7:57 AM
                          I feel like Capricorn, to me anyway, is a cross between a virgo and a scorpio... in a good way...
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                            Fri, October 3, 2008 - 8:03 AM
                            lol Yes they do seem that way. My Capricorn Sun, Scorpio moon friend also reminds me of a Cancer a lot. Her personality is very similar to my Cancer mom.
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                              Fri, October 3, 2008 - 8:07 AM
                              You know, Cancers are interesting creatures... we've talked about them a lot in the Cancer tribe, but they really differ a lot with what else is in their chart, I think more so than some other signs, for instance Scorpios, usually (to me) have very inherent characteristics, but Cancers seem to be more sensitive to other factors in their chart... IMHO, of course.
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                                Fri, October 3, 2008 - 8:34 AM
                                Now that I think about it I guess a lot of the Cancers I've known are different in a lot of ways too. So it probably does depend a lot on what else they have in their chart. Pisces seem to be that way too, from the ones I've known they can be as opposite as night and day from each other. Both me and my sister are Pisces Suns and we're very different in a lot of ways.
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                                  Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

                                  Fri, October 31, 2008 - 12:41 PM
                                  Cancer is ruled by the Moon. Its the only sign that is ruled by a "Planet" that goes through the complete zodiac in less time then the Sun goes threw 1 sign.

                                  And to top that off.... Our ruler the Moon is in a sign, that has another dispositor. And thats 12 different ones for the 30 days that the Sun is in Cancer.

                                  Dispositor - The sign any planet is in is affected by the sign of the planet that rules that sign. This is called dispositorship. So when Mars is in Cancer, it is heavily affected by the Moon, which rules Cancer. When Mars is in Leo, it will be heavily affected by the sign the Sun is in, since the Sun rules Leo. Mars in Virgo is more influenced by Mercury, and therefore whatever sign Mercury is in. Mars in Libra is affected by whatever sign Venus is in, since Venus rules Libra. When a planet rules the sign another planet is in, we say it “disposes,” or is the dispositor of that planet.
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                                Fri, October 3, 2008 - 9:08 AM
                                Even the Scorpios I've known have been pretty different too. I haven't actually known (or realized I knew) very many until kind of recently though lol. But like my little almost 7 yr old cousin is a Scorpio Sun born on a Sagittarius cusp.. and he loves to talk and talk lol! And I know most Scorpios aren't usually big 'talkers', but my cousin is very outgoing once he gets to know people. But he also has that very intense, and sensitive side where he seems to take a while to be able to trust people (even though he's not quite 7 yet lol :)). And my guy friend who's a Scorpio Sun, Aquarius Moon actually reminds me of my Aquarius Sun, Libra Moon ex-bf in a lot of ways.. except my Scorpio guy has a lot more of the emotional intensity that's usually a Scorpio trait. And I have another Scorpio guy friend who also likes to talk and open up to me a lot, but he doesn't seem to have as much intensity as my other Scorpio friend.
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    Fri, October 3, 2008 - 4:31 PM
    i'm friendly with Gemini's. I have North Node in it maybe that's why.

    But I clash with Leo's.

    Pisces - we're magaically compatible, everything' just so comfortable and natural with them.
    Scorpios - I've had a couple of Scorpio best friends... Usually they're older and tell me what i need to know when i need to hear it...

    Aries - Usually I hang out with them if I need a laugh or an adventure... I get along with them in that respect, being a listener and being able to follow as long as it's not stupid

    Taurus - Ah. This is comfy. Except when one particular Taurus female annoys me - with her small-mindedness and bossy behavior... makes me think she deserves her kidney failure

    Cancer - my best friend in high school was one. cancer's pretty good at reading my emotions that other people easily miss. i don't even have to say anything but she'll still see it.

    Leo - Leos...... are attention-grabbing people and they love to brag or at least drop hints about how awesome they are, and if you're a negative Scorpio/Capricorn not used to giving praise where you feel isn't due............... also, when Leos get mad esp one with Mars rising conj Pluto - it's too much for this Cancer sun; and not so productive with Scorpio rising...

    Virgo - True Virgos are cool with me. I like their common sense and simplicity and logic and ability to discern....

    Libra - pretty boys... not my type. although there was a LIbra man who is very very good to me - not sure if he has Virgo or Scorpio planets though.

    Scorpio -already mentioned

    Sagittarius - i have plenty of Sags in my life. must be 9th house sun and Sag stellium. i get along well with them - the Suns ,though who have water planets/ascendants. ALthough i CANNOT stand my overly loquacious aunt - i feel like screaming 'would u pls shut up for a second?!!" i DON'T want to hang around with those types of Sags. talking about absolutely everything including their feelings that i don't care about, like how they felt while shopping. SHUT UP, DUDE!!!!!! WASTING my TIME!!! (I realized that the dumb cheerleader archetype is based on girls like my aunt. pollyanna, looking ahead and stumbling and laughing. geez.)

    Capricorn - hmm... not know enough. one of u here has a Cap asc, u know who u are, you're pretty cool to me. Cap ascendants are awesome. Cap suns - i know 3. The girls are very nice and sweet; while the guy - he's "dogmatic." .... advising me not to smoke the hookah, not to experiment with substances, "you don't know what's in it... are u a bad girl?" SHUT UP DUDE SHUT UP.

    Aquarius - Aquarius boys are the cutest babies. Lively, ever-so-curious, eager to learn, friendly... etc. .... Aquarius men... are interesting characters to me. I learn a lot from them.

    Pisces -already mentioned
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      Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

      Fri, October 3, 2008 - 5:27 PM
      Usually they're older and tell me what i need to know when i need to hear it...
      ************
      The best kind to have.

      I have had two mentors, both scorps, first was five years older, second is only seven months older but
      was in my shoes before.

      Current one can be quite brutal in his delivery but if I am in a jam
      and/or needing advice, I call him before anyone else.
      Funny thing is when we talk about business we have role reversal:
      where the Scorpio has talked non-stop for well over an hour
      and me being gemini, did not utter one word that whole time.

      His moon is Aquarius and mine is Scorp so we get on quite well
      but when we don't, oh boy, I lost two cell phones, a window and
      quite a few mouse's for my computer while arguing with him.
      • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

        Fri, October 3, 2008 - 5:52 PM
        That's what I *love* about most of my Scorpio friends: they go *straight* to the heart of the matter, without any bullshit; they tell it just like it is (and this is what I look for, and, similarly, am like as well). I've had so many Scorpio friends throughout my life, it's not even funny. The list is long. Oh, and I know all about brutality - me and one of my Scorpio Sun sign friends were both referred to as "Sweeney Todd's" - if you can make out the connection.
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          Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

          Fri, October 3, 2008 - 6:01 PM
          They do say what needs to be said without the sugar coating.
          Some people can talk for hours on end without saying anything
          worthwhile, Scorps can just look at you and speak volumes.

          They are also the only ones who are not intimidated by me
          and will stand up to me, rarely taking my bullshit.
          Yet there are those days/times when they know that I
          am not just acting out and they will indulge my petulant side
          *SIGH*
      • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

        Fri, October 3, 2008 - 6:20 PM
        lol! Sounds fun :D
        My friend is also a Scorpio Sun, Aquarius Moon and he's also very good and helpful when I need help or advice (he's 12 yrs older than me). And I love how he tells it like it is and is so straightforward. I think that's also an Aquarius quality too though, because my ex-bf was like that too (my ex is 7 yrs older than me).. very straight forward and tells you what he thinks whether you like it or not lol. I love that in a guy though :)
        I don't like the guys who try to sugarcoat and act all sweet and just tell me what I want to hear.
        I love it when they're not afraid to get me upset or mad at them, or if they're not afraid to show me who's 'boss' sometimes haha :)
    • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

      Fri, October 3, 2008 - 6:21 PM
      Some interesting descriptions:

      >>Leo - Leos...... are attention-grabbing people and they love to brag or at least drop hints about how awesome they are...<<

      From the many I've known, this is *so* true. This is what I couldn't stand about them; and they would easily attempt to knock you down, and/or try to show you up, if it meant making themselves look good - and they'd feel no remorse. Obnoxious and childish. Plus I'm not one to give out *free* praise - if I give out compliments, you better damn well have earned them (and it must be said, I'm not the easiest person to win that kind of attention from - and this is what most of them probably hated about me, as well.) But, still, there are some exceptions (as to be expected with nearly anything), and there are a few I knew who were genuinely good people.

      >>Cancers.... *sigh* my fellow water sign. Our brothers and sisters.... just grow a pair! The men are sissies, whiners and moody bawl babies. Women are manipulative naggers.<<

      To some extent, I have seen this. One out of the many close Cancer friends I had growing up (he was both Sun and Moon Cancer) could be a whiny baby (but he wasn't like that with me, but he was with others.)

      >>Pisces... see above... same as Cancers.<<

      I had an awful experience of dating one, and she was one of the most godawfully whiny, illogical, inconsiderate and emotionally-manipuative people I had ever met in my life. Something good did come of it...in the bedroom. However, not *all* of them are like this. Some are quite the opposite - some can be tougher, take-no-shit types, while others can be so compassionate, and have a celestial, otherworldly-like disposition, that it's hard not to be captivated by.

      >>Libra... can be good but I can't stand how they gloss everything over to make things pretty. A turd can be painted, decorated, glittered up... but in the end it's still a chunck of shit.<<

      This was talked about in the Libra tribe recently, and as a Sun Libra with a heavy dosage of Scorpio (and Pluto) in my chart, this may play a considerable part in why I don't seem to have too many Libra friends or associates; I refuse to compromise on most things (as my friends say), and if something is shit to me, I say so, and/or treat it as such. There will be no glossing or pretending that something (or someone) is more than it/he/she actually is. I know a Libra (she is my nephew's grandmother from the baby father's side), and she fits the description above, almost *precisely*. Needless to say that I don't (nor do I care to) associate much with her. As I mentioned in the original post, I have one close Libra friend, but he's a Scorpio moon, and he doesn't sugarcoat anything.
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        Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

        Fri, October 3, 2008 - 11:52 PM
        I know it seems I was a bit harsh on my fellow water signs. Eh maybe. I like them as friends and I get very protective of them knowing how sensitive (as I am) water can be. I've had a couple bad experiences with Cancer friends. A girl who tried to manipulate my Aries away from me (she had a boyfriend not to mention her and I were suppsose to be friends) and a male friend who will threaten to kill himself and become "depressed" over women that he barely knows. The same guy would beg.... yes beg me to date him. I'd actually get texts from him saying PLEASE please go out with me. My stomach would roll in distain at the thought of begging a women for affection.
        I keep my eyes open around Cancers. They tend to pinch and cling when you least expect it. When a Cancer can't manipulate you then they cry foul or just plain cry about how unfair you are being to them. The girl who tried to steal my boyfriend away goes around to my group of friends telling them I'm so harsh to have cut her out of my life.... she just wants to be friends!! How could I? Um... this is after I found out the twit was calling my boyfriend and telling him I would cheat on him and "suggested" he break up with me. But I'm suppose to forget that?! HA!
        Pisces... my bro is a fish. He's just out there. I love him to death but if anything too tough for him to handle comes his way he just flops like.... well a fish. They are so beautiful though. That soft watery look to them is pretty. They just need to grow some teeth.
        I do love my fellow water signs. But I have to remember and be a little more tolerant of how differently we react. A fish swims away, a cancer hides in its shell and the scorpion stings.
        • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

          Sat, October 4, 2008 - 7:21 PM
          Mel,
          I see you've had lots of problems with other girls fighting with you over guys too lol. And yes, I think the water signs probably are the worst in that way. The Pisces girl I mentioned in my other post was a friend of my Scorpio guy. In fact she's known him longer than I have.. but he doesn't like her as more than a friend, but she definitely likes him as more than a friend. He wants me to be his gf, and she hates that. So that's why she started threatening me to 'stay away' and telling me to 'grow up' and learn to be a 'real woman' and telling me she's going to 'smash me to pieces literally' (oh and btw, she's 10 yrs older than me... real mature lol). And she said all that even after I told her that I don't want to get in the way of her friendship with him. I told her I know she cares about him just like I do. And I told her that I don't even have anything against her (I didn't up until that point), and that she could even ask him if I ever said anything bad about him to her, because I never have. I did tell him about our little fight afterwards though, I thought he should probably know that she was trying to start things with me out of the blue. He told me that she's basicly threatening him now and saying things like she won't be his friend anymore if he's talking to me, etc. But he's not allowing her to manipulate him. He said he doesn't like her as a friend anymore. Which it's sad it had to come to that. But I guess that's what happens with 1 Scorpio male in the middle of 2 Pisces females lol =/
  • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

    Tue, October 21, 2008 - 7:22 AM
    Hi! A Gemini here. I joined the Scorpio tribe to learn more about my Scorpio husband (yes, husband!) I've been really interested in the posts about Geminis because it gives me the opportunity to see myself through his Scorpio eyes. I undoubtedly drive my husband completely nuts (mostly because he can never get me to shut up for a minute or two). But, even though we are very different, something about the combo works. I think it's because I have a Scorpio rising and he has a Gemini rising. It feels very difficult to balance these opposing signs within ourselves, but externally I think it gives us an insight and an empathy into what the other is going through. My best girlfriend is also a Scorpio many times over. But that's not to say that all my Scorpio relationships have been dandy! I think those are the only two that have worked, and that is too bad because Scorpios are very amazing people.
    • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

      Tue, October 21, 2008 - 6:39 PM
      I'm a Libra with a heavy amount of Scorpio in my chart (rising being one placement I have in Scorpio.) I can't deny that there has been strong attraction between me and many Gemini females in the very beginning. However, something always ends up going wrong. I wouldn't say that the 'talking too much' was the problem, but more like there was a lot of fickleness, flightiness and untrustworthiness.
      • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

        Tue, October 21, 2008 - 6:53 PM
        I should also add that the first person I ever had a relationship with (and lost my virginity to) was a Gemini (but most of her chart was dominated by water.) That was actually a good relationship (and sex was amazing.)
        • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

          Tue, October 21, 2008 - 7:07 PM
          I'm a Pisces Sun (Mercury and Venus), and Gemini Moon. lol I almost don't like to admit that here on the Scorpio tribe :D My chart is made up of almost all water and air, about half and half. As far as personality, I definitely feel more 'water' and relate to water more.

          And also my dad is a Gemini Sun, Cancer Moon, and my mom is a Cancer Sun and they've been happily married for over 25 years. And Cancers and Geminis aren't 'supposed' to mix well either, but it worked well for my parents :) My dad shows more Cancer characteristics than Gemini though.. if I didn't know him and had to guess his sign I would've guessed he was a Cancer lol :)
        • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

          Tue, October 21, 2008 - 7:08 PM
          I love gemini men they are so sexual. hehas open my mind to sexuality that I thought my mind and body would never take me
          • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

            Tue, October 21, 2008 - 7:30 PM
            Indeed, the one serious relationship I had with the Gemini girl...she was *very* sexual...I vividly remember us sitting on the bed in my room one afternoon, many years ago. We were just friends at first; all of a sudden, out of nowhere, she grabbed my...package... and started fondling it. I go, "wait, what are you doing?" She then goes, "oh don't worry, I'm not gonna hurt it." That *totally* did something to me, because after that, it was all over....her :-) But, in all seriousness, after she did that, I wanted sex so bad, and very often...that I could feel the burn. I pretty much *demanded* full-on intercourse after that. Keeping in mind, that before all this, I was still a virgin. She totally corrupted me (but in a good way.)
            • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

              Tue, October 21, 2008 - 7:44 PM
              Here's an article I've seen on a couple of different tribes, and it talks about Scorpio and Pisces sexuality. It's very true too :) Sorry it's so long, but I think it's pretty interesting :))-


              The following information is about sexuality--don't read it if you are easily offended and closed off from your own sexuality. And please remember, this information is based on the Fun "Pop Astrology" Sun sign (works for the Moon sign and ASC as well) and will not accurately describe any individual although if you have lot of Pisces in your chart, or a Pisces lover...you will see some of yourself (or your lover) or at least your fantasies here.

              Pisces is hot. A strange thing to say about a water sign...or is it? Like Scorpio, Pisces is very much focused on sex. These two signs have quite a bit in common sexually. They are both mysterious, albeit in different ways. Scorpio fairly oozes unfathomable mystery--dark, decadent, and delightful. Pisces mystery is more subtle, more spiritual, more changing. Pisces is mutable water, after all.

              Ruled by Neptune, Pisces is at home in the 12th house of the zodiac. The touch of the Pisces alternates between hard and soft, but it is always memorable. Their eyes will melt into your soul. They know how to make any moment magical; they can turn even the worst situation or tortuous sexual position into a fantasy come true.

              What sets Pisces apart from all the other signs sexually is their willingness to try anything. Scorpio will indulge all sexuality too, but a Scorpio wants it to be their own idea. Pisces doesn't mind if you are the instigator, in fact, he or she enjoys your suggestions and will gladly participate.

              There is a dark side to Pisces that isn't often discussed. Bondage and control issues figure quite prominently in Neptune's sexual underworld. A Pisces man will play both sides of the dominance and submission game, although he often prefers to be in charge. He is ultimately attracted to a sensuous, powerful woman who knows what she wants in life and is consciously working on obtaining it.

              This is not a contradiction: Pisces wants a strong woman because it is even more exciting for him to have his lady, his powerful, domineering lady, under his control.

              The Piscean female is also suited for both roles, but she prefers to be the 'slave' most of the time. She too is attracted to the powerful and she will readily obey the right man. Because of her submissive nature, a Pisces woman doesn't enjoy being on top of her lover, but she will do it in order to please him (or her).

              Some Pisces need a mix of pleasure and pain to achieve a mind-blowing orgasm. Their interest in the occult can turn to role-playing in the bedroom. Vampyrism is a favorite theme. Biting, cutting with small razors, drinking of menstrual blood--all these are possibilities. Anything goes when Pisces is looking for satisfaction. They are highly suggestible and eager to please.

              These traits make Pisces some of the best lovers, second only to Scorpio influenced lovers. Why do I say Pisces is number two? One reason only...Scorpio men can have multiple orgasms and sex all night long. Pisces are usually once or twice a night, with a break in between. The gap is closed in the female sex, however. Both Pisces and Scorpio women are capable of multiple, excruciating orgasms. Pisces women are often screamers in the bedroom, so be prepared!
              • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

                Tue, October 21, 2008 - 7:50 PM
                Yeah, interesting article. The last girl I was with was a Pisces, and yes, sex was great, as she was highly sexual like me, and she wanted it just as often as I did. The Gemini girl I was with had a high amount of Water in her chart (it was her dominating element), so I'm not sure if it was from her Gemini Sun, or the Water domination in her chart, or, both. :-)
  • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

    Tue, October 21, 2008 - 8:00 PM
    Ahh yes. I figure I have enough scorp in me to make this legit. Boo yeah.

    Aries: I find that there are two types of Aries - the loud and the quiet. Just what I've seen. I get a long better with the loud! They are full of energy and always up to something... the females can often times be "me" oriented... I just let it roll off my back. I dated an Aries for three years once, and it was horrible. Never again. Connection: 6/10

    Taurus: Takes some time for me to get warmed up to them... I do like their practicality though. But they seem to be boring... not just your run- of- the-mill boring, I mean, I want to slit my wrists boring. LOL. They make awesome friends. But try to get them out of their sweat pants and into a speeding car chase- it's almost impossible. They make great drinking buddies though. Connection: 7.5/10

    Gemini: NEIN! Freaks of nature, and to be honest, if I can't take you to the battlefield with me you are not a real friend of mine. I mean... I have loads of Gemini's in my life. None of them are stable... they are great for witty convos and frivolous things of that nature, but, are you coming or going? I can't explain it- they just freak me out. I had a best friend once who was a gemini female... she stabbed me in the back and I never talked to her again. It was messy.

    Cancer: One of my bambina's is a cancer. She has a gemini moon! Haha. I am not used to cancers.... they are sooooo guarded? I haven't been in contact with many. They are super for gossip though! And they keep me updated... lol. Hard to get them to come out at night- if they don't FEEL like it!

    Leo: Not current with enough to make conclusion.

    Virgo: Yay! I like them. So witty- so realistic. Maybe not the best for advice, but really good to talk things out with for a clearer picture. Some are wild, many are always up to something. If you want the painful truth, get a hard-knock virgo. I like truth- so this is good. Some of them like to hold grudges though. Many that I know like to par-tey.

    Libra: Latte anyone? lol. Artsy fartsy and talkative. Small doses and were good.

    Scorpio: They hate it when I can read them like a book. I just don't read out loud. lol. I have two scorpio friends for life. I know that they have my back no matter what, and I mean what. If someone crosses me they are always the first to ask if I need that person "taken care of". They are always there when I need to get away from it all. We have made pacts to always be there for each other. It's hard core! And almost military like. One thing we share in common is our pain. Nuff said.

    Sagittarius: Fun- lots of fun. Road trip buddy who won't let the world get to them. I like that. Dated one for 2 years... never again! Fun to party with!

    Capricorn: Only have met 3! Liked two, disliked the female. Only because she was too uptight for my liking. Borderline snobby. The males were cold and factual. Reminded me of judges. Tried having one of those 3 am in the morning philosophical talks with one of them- it hurt me to see how inside the box he was. Oh well. Oh! I have another cappy friend, and he is more approachable, but still cold- I think he was hurt in his past.

    Aquarius: Aquarius sun is fun! Good drinking buddy. Very easygoing an accepting. Although I do have some negative issues with aqua moons. (shudder) One of my best friends is an Aquarius. He has a scorpio moon and a sag asc. He's fun! And intense...

    Pisces: Love hate relationship. Beautiful creatures, hard to rationalize with them in many situations. But if you need someone to care, pisces will be there! In all their glory. They always know the best way to make you smile, like making you a card when you are sad, or giving you candy. Hahah. AND DO THEY EVER LIKE TO DRINK!
    • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

      Tue, October 21, 2008 - 10:05 PM
      Pisces
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      • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

        Wed, October 22, 2008 - 3:12 AM
        I find that the most compatible sign for a Scorpio is a Scorpio. :) For just about anything.

        And these are the other pattern I've noticed:

        My friends are Scorpio, Gemini, Aquarians, Cancers (male of the species, girls can be too much for me) - those are the signs many of my friends are born under. Yet, my best friend is a Taurus with Leo ASC - and I'm normally not too crazy about Taureans. In theory, yes - like the archetype. In practice, she's about the only one I click with.

        I don't seem to fare too well with Pisces, Taurus (except my closest friend ever & a very dear friend on this tribe thingie) - as we hardly see eye to eye on anything; and Leos and Sags I hardly even notice - so it's not that we don't get along, it's more like I simply don't register them.

        All the other Suns, hmmm, some I like, some I don't. Mostly ambivalent. Some archetypes I love - e.g. Libra (may be my fav, after Sco and Aqu), but don't seem to have many friends of Libra kind. I do have a few fabulous Libra women in my life though. And I think it's always good to have a few Aries people around - they can be fun albeit overbearing if one lets them get to close to ya.

        As for other placements - I've noticed my fav Moon signs are Aquarius (absolutely favorite!!!), Virgo and Libra. I have many Pisces and Scorpio Moons around me. I wonder if I love my Pisces Moons for of in spite of them lol. And Scorpio Moons - ugh - don't know. With them I find it's a long and excruciating road straight down into the heart of darkness - but not always rewarding or worth the journey. Sometimes yes. And in those cases, I know I have friendships forged for life. Aries and Sagittarius Moons I have not, as of yet, been able to really connect with.

        There also seems to be a host of Aquarius and Libra Mars and Venus around me. And many many Leo and Libra ASCs. Seems like all the people the closest to me have one of those two ASCs.

        Also, in general, I like water signs with lots of air in their charts. I find I like people with some Virgo in the mix too. I also don't seem to like people who are nothing but mix of fire and earth.

        Still, all patterns aside, I find it's really only Scorpios (or other people waltzing with Mr Pluto on daily basis) who I can have the sort of most profound understanding. And then I think of my Gemini & say, well, them too. lol :)






  • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

    Wed, October 22, 2008 - 7:17 AM
    There's been a lot about Geminis being liars and I have to defend us a little bit! Of course, I can only speak for myself.

    I rarely lie, but when I do 98% of the time it is because I am trying to avoid hurting someone's feelings or else I'm trying to diffuse a volatile situation between people. 1% of the time I've gotten myself into an undesirable situation (usually from running my mouth) and lie to get out of it , and 1% of the time I lie because someone is stepping on my privacy issues and it's not a situation where I am in a position to tell them plainly to back off. When I lie to spare feelings, be diplomatic, or retain my privacy, I feel justified (rightly or wrongly) in doing it. When I lie to save my own butt, I feel like a terrible person and try to avoid those situations in the future. I think what makes my Scorpio friends nervous is the ease with which I lie when I DO. Geminis are verbally gifted, so lying is effortless.

    An issue I have with my Scorpio mate is that he believes that putting a positive spin on a situation constitutes lying, simply because it would be saying something in a way that he is not inclined to say it. For instance, he may say people in traffic today were being assholes, whereas I might say there were some spirited drivers out there. The positive spin is meant to be diplomatic while getting the same point across. He would call this "lying", and if this is a normal Scorpionic perception then I would definitely be seen as a huge liar.

    I dated a double Scorpio who prided himself on not lying. He thought that as long as his WORDS were technically true, then he was telling the truth. So, if you wanted to know whether he had given your cat breakfast this morning, he would say 'I fed the cat". Notice he never said when he fed the cat or which cat he fed. Although he knew perfectly well what you were asking, he felt this deception was not lying. He used this little trick to cheat on me and feel fine about lying about it. Not that he lied because he's a Scorpio. He was just a douche.
    • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

      Wed, October 22, 2008 - 7:32 AM
      My dad is the only Gemini Sun I personally know (as far as I know), and he's very honest. So going by what I know about my dad, Geminis are definitely not all liars. Like you were saying, maybe Geminis and Scorpios have a different way of looking at things in general. So because you're looking at the positives in a situation, someone else who might be seeing more of the negative might feel that you're lying. When it's not that you're lying, it's just that you have a different point of view.
    • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

      Wed, October 22, 2008 - 7:50 PM
      Poor Gemini's - sometimes I feel bad, because this sign takes such a beating. I remember a Sun Scorpio I used to know, and she said, "I think Gemini is the worst sign." Even my own mother, who is a Sun Gemini, replied, "Yeah, I think something is wrong with us." I even remember reading this fairly hilarious article on the "best" and "worst" drivers of the zodiac. Guess which sign ended up on the top of the list as the "worst" drivers? Ha. Gemini! (Capricorns ended up at the other end, as the "best" drivers.) There's even a tribe hilariously titled, "Shut the fuck up about Gemini's." Lovely.

      One of my best friends sometime ago - who I worshipped, and looked up to almost like a father figure - was a double Scorpio (Sun and Moon), and, indeed, in the beginning, the friendship was fantastic; he was quick to tell me stuff like, "I feel like you are my long-lost brother," and, "you know me so well." He was such a breath of fresh air, because he seemed like one of the only few people who I had ever met, who could keep up with me on *all* levels, be it intellectual, emotional, etc, etc. I loved how he could make me think and ponder about things (especially when I already do enough of that, yet he *still* could point out stuff to me that I never saw), and, likewise, how he could challenge me as well. We pushed (and challenged) each other in many ways, and I used to thrive off of that. But, ultimately, those same things, are what tore the friendship apart, and, eventually, we ended up clashing *all* the time, until he threw in the towel. (He's twice my age, btw.) That just shows you how it can be when two Scorpio types come together - it can be heavenly, or hellish, or swing from one extreme to the other.
      • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

        Thu, October 23, 2008 - 1:12 PM

        thanks scasco for having some sympathy for us geminis (yes, we just can’t stay away from this tribe). it’s something i’ve pondered a bit, since i usually feel a strong connection with scorpios… but we are generally the most hated sign by scorpio, which is unfortunate given how fascinating the scorpio-gemini connection is and how much we have to offer one another when defenses are down.
        in my personal experience with other geminis, there are only a few i’ve come across in my life that fit the typical negative stereotype. otherwise, my life-long gemini friends are some of the most loyal people i know, including myself, and have much more depth and dependability to them than given credit for.
        there’s something to the interaction between these signs that because it’s so baffling, instead of putting the energy into developing more insight we try to make sense of it by oversimplifying things and put each other down. it’s exhausting at times, but i’ll never have my fill of learning about you scorpios (:
        • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

          Fri, October 24, 2008 - 7:42 AM
          >>thanks scasco for having some sympathy for us geminis<<

          Aww... you're welcome :-).

          One of my closest friends growing up was a Scorpio, but with Gemini Moon and Gemini Rising. There was an unspoken connection before either one of us actually spoke to one-another, but when we finally did speak, we clicked. He didn't fit with much of the stereotypical negative Gemini characteristics. As mentioned earlier, both of my parents are Gemini's, and one thing I can say about them *both* is that they're funny as hell.
          • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

            Fri, October 24, 2008 - 10:44 AM
            "One of my closest friends growing up was a Scorpio, but with Gemini Moon and Gemini Rising. There was an unspoken connection before either one of us actually spoke to one-another, but when we finally did speak, we clicked."

            I have a good friend who's a Cancer Sun, Gemini Moon, and we clicked right from the start too :) I feel a strong connection with him. I even told him that he kind of reminds me of my dad (who's a Gemini Sun, Cancer Moon.. so their Sun and Moon signs are reversed lol) :)) And me and my friend have a similar (loony) sense of humor too lol.
            • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

              Fri, October 24, 2008 - 10:59 AM
              kind've love or hate with the bulk of geminis that i've known over the years ... their sometimes shallow and fickle nature irritates me badly ... even people with significant gemini in their charts ... aquarius kind've does this too ...
              just my 2 cents
              • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

                Fri, October 24, 2008 - 11:05 AM
                The one Gemini Sun I do know (my dad), isn't shallow or fickle at all. But I do hate shallowness in a person, and fickleness is real irritating too lol. And I don't get along with people like that. So I guess it just depends on the person more than their sign.
                • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

                  Fri, October 24, 2008 - 11:24 AM
                  My Cancer friend has a Gemini Moon and Venus. I only have a Gemini Moon, but no other Gemini in my chart. My chart is filled mostly with Pisces (and I have Cancer rising), the only Scorpio in my chart is that my eighth house is in Scorpio, and Pallas is Scorpio (but I don't understand all that yet lol).
          • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

            Fri, October 24, 2008 - 3:27 PM
            wow, i imagine that it must've been a pretty entertaining household growing up with two gemini parents! maybe having that kind of energy around you gives you a good insight into the gemini way of being. i have a lot of gemini in my chart, so i'm very thankful i grew up with the influences of a pisces mom and virgo father... emotional and grounding.
      • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

        Thu, October 23, 2008 - 1:24 PM
        Scasco, the friendship you described with your Sco Sun/Moon friend that's what happens to me often with Sco Moons regardless of their Sun sign.

        There's always that initial semblance of complete understanding - yet, in my case, sooner rather than later, it all gets shattered into million sharp lil pieces that seem to be really hard to clean up as they get stuck in the most unusual places & you can cut yourself on them years later still. Sco Moons exhaust the hell out of me & I don't think we ever really do understand each other, but they seem to be coming and staying in my life. The long and tiring process of persuading them to let their shields down for a second before they hide behind them again can really take a toll on people who genuinely care about them. But, maybe it's not Sco Moon - maybe it's just a common characteristic my friends with that placement have regardless of their Moon in Sco. (I'm a Libra Moon - conj Pluto in H8)

        As for Sco Suns - well, I try not to generalize. I agree it can be hellish too - been there. But it can be heavenly as well - or, to avoid the overused dichotomy, it can be damn good & honest. Takes work - as anything else. I'm always biased towards Sco sisters and brothers. Yes, I love Sco Suns and some of them are my fav people ever ever ever. My dearest person in life is a Sco indeed. Some are not as compatible with me - but hey I'm an optimist and I try to always focus on the positive. :)

        Variety is good too. Give Gemini a chance hehe And all the other signs too. All this compatibility talk is rather innocuous anyway.
        • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

          Fri, October 24, 2008 - 8:14 AM
          It's funny you mention that thing about the 'shield' with Scorpio Moons; I've noticed a bit of a pattern with them (but also Pluto Mooners, as well); it's true - while many of them can be quite open about their emotional states (at least moreso than Scorpio risers, generally), and are often pleasant/gregarious, they can also shut you out on certain aspects of themselves, *especially* if/when they're going through rough periods. This can be infuriating. And truth of the matter is, you *can't* push them to open up about what they're feeling. If you do try to push, it only makes them cave into themselves even more, and that'll only make things worse. At times like this, they need their personal space, and if they want to, they'll come to you. I say this from two-fold experience; the double Scorpio friend I mentioned was just like this as well, not to mention my current closest friend at the moment (he's a Sagittarius/cusp Scorpio, Libra Moon conjunct Pluto, and Venus Scorpio), he's like this as well. And, ironically, so am I. I've pissed off and infuriated many of my friends (One a Scorpio, with Cancer Rising), two of my ex-girlfriends, and a few potential girlfriends because I shut down at times, and become uncommunicative. With me, they just have to accept that this is how I am, and that it's nothing personal. Out of all this, there was only one relationship that was damaged; the last girl I was with (a Pisces) said *constantly* that I didn't talk or *communicate* enough, and that I refused to make any effort to do so. That relationship wasn't so good, anyway, so I'm not even sure it's fair to say it became 'damaged'. I'm also a Libra Moon conjunct Pluto (mine is in the 12th house.)
  • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

    Fri, October 24, 2008 - 5:53 AM
    I have trouble staying away from this site, too, Amelia. Not only does it help me understand my husband, but months go by between posts on all the Gemini sites I've joined! What, suddenly no Gemini wants to talk? I appreciate the liveliness of the Scorpio site.
  • Re: Most compatible sign as Scorpio

    Thu, October 30, 2008 - 1:02 AM
    i'm a sun scorp with venus libra and my partner is the other way around. so, we kinda feel like one person rather than two. like you said though, we can talk about anything whether it be light or dark, cold or heart-warming. the only thing is that it's kinda hard to work out the bumpy roads but once that's passed, it's all sails from there. we've been going out for 2 years then took a 4 month break and got back together.

    pisces has been one of my friends since elementary as well as cancer and capricorn. most virgo's i know are clean-freaks but they're system aren't clean at all (no harm meant). Aries is too confrontational for my liking (mother-in-law) and the only Sagittarius i know is far so much into games that he believes that he can conquer reality in a click of a button o_O

    i've been raised with my sis (capricorn), elder brother (gemini) and younger brother (sagittarius) my mother (scorpio in which we have tons of disagreements since divorce) and my father (leo)

    the only way i can get along with gemini is frequent questioning of his knowledge with computers :S

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