I have been in relationships with two Libras. On the negative side, I feel like Libra can make a person very insecure, and we Scorpios tend to be very bad partners for insecure people. On the positive side (and I'm afraid this has only happened with my second Libra), they're interested in harmony and balance and they will act to achieve that. But if the Libra has had a dysfunctional background this can cross over into co-dependency. This is only my experience...YMMV!
Cheers,
Polly Moller

My last relationship was with a Libra. I don't recommend it. He was so indecisive about his feelings for me. So he just did what he always does and found someone else and broke my heart. Rather than working on our real issues he dropped it all and moved on. Had a lot of power play/mind games with him. Superiority issues, to say the least.

Most of my friends a Libras. We are somehow drawn to each other, but I too get frustrated with the insecurities. Generally, I think Libras have fairly high standards and they have a hard time finding friends/partners who can live up to them. I constatntly feel like they're testing me and my integrity (which they have a lot of, themselves) and expect perfection. We have a lot of the same orderliness traits and understandings of how the world works, which is probably why we get along so well. But they sure do keep me on my toes!

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I've known a Libra guy for going on 6 years. He is TOTALLY wishy washy and he can't distinguish his own desires from those of others so he's tossed around by everchanging whims. I don't think he realizes he can't please everyone and even if he did, he doesnt have the fortitude to make any solid choices.

The only reason we are friends is because I don't put any stock in him as a fixture in my life... so then we have great parallel interaction, shallow but fun. But even that grows old since as a Scorp I don't have much use for superficial relationships.

Another problem, he swears I am the girl for him. Charming as he is, I know better! Like Sandi I have huge superiority issues... but I can't help it. I could chew him up and spit him out without even blinking, not that I would... I digress!

Beware the Libra! Proceed with caution and always trust your keen Scorpio instincts.

Thank you everyone for your feedback! All of it has been good information. I've been dating this one for a while now and I just wanted to see if I was going crazy or not! :)

I can see some of the Insecurities, but I really see the indecision and he is always keeping me on my toes. Constantly looking for improvement in every aspect of life. Sometimes it's nice to enjoy what's going on in your life instead of pushing every waking moment.

I'm sure I will do exactly what I always do and soar to the top of the situation after living in it for a while.

Thank you, all of you again!
jasminwind

Hiya,

My first wife was a Libra, one day she loved me, the next she hated me, then she loved me again, just to hate me again, and so it went, until i got tired of it.

But, they she was artistic, very beautiful and sexy.

Hope this helps,
ozai

i was with one for ike 3 years, and yes.... unfortnately so, i had to leave her behind.........

and yea, it was because she wanted me too much one day, and not at all the next...

really controlling, or at least wanted to be.....

hope this helps ya..... turtle (triple scorpio)

I love my libra boyfriend. I know that astrology forecasts say it isn't supposted to work, but we are very happy. And I think you have to take into account all aspects of people's charts when considering compatability.

Whoa what if YOU are a Libra/Scorpio

dnt dnt DNT!

sister mother sister mother

I have no idea based on experience..
My best friend was a Scorpio and you definately didn't want to piss her off because she would plot a revenge plan to the point of where you were questioning her sanity..
lol
But she as a great friend..kinda miss her very motivated and passionate.

I think Libra and Scorpio may have great sex..but the intellect may suffer based on what I read. Air signs are intellectual..where the mind has to take priority..the Libra is content to *think* about sex all day where the Scorpio has to have it because of the emotions..it being a water sign.

In other words.. you may like Libra for the sex =)

Good sex, everything else completely sucks ....... they are not usually loyal people ... they take delight in creative lying/bullshitting and manipulating people ... very materialistic too .... not a soulful person compared to scorpio on average ....

When Libra and Scorpio come together in a love affair, they tend to make a very emotional
ly connected and mutually satisfying union. Though Scorpio is a brooder who can get lost
in the confusing welter of their own emotions, Libra's proclivity for balance and harmony
helps keep Scorpio even. Scorpio can return the favor to Libra with their characteristic
powers of focus, a trait that Libra usually lacks. These two are very compatible due to their
similar needs in a love relationship: Libra is the Sign of Partnership, and Libra is happiest
when in a well-balanced and intimate relationship, while Scorpio thrives on emotional and
sexual intimacy with their mate. These two Signs can make a very loyal, close and
satisfying partnership.

These two would do well to undertake some sort of project together aside from their love
relationship, as they have great potential to get great things done. They combine the power
of emotion with the power of intellect, an extremely formidable duo. Scorpio tends to be
more patient, but is also more controlling than Libra. Despite any differences, both partners
love risk and taking chances; this is not a boring relationship! These two are real charmers;
they know how to woo and seduce one another and take great pleasure in doing so. Their
different styles -- Scorpio is intense and secretive while Libra is upfront and open --
sometimes make them have trouble understanding one another, so they may need to pay
close attention to their communication at times.

Libra is ruled by the Planet Venus (Love) and Scorpio is dually ruled by the Planets Mars
(Passion) and Pluto (Power). Libra's love of beauty and romance balances the strife that can
arise in Scorpio's life due to their deep, often tangled emotions. Scorpio's Mars influence
at least promises an active, exciting relationship. Also, neither Sign wants to argue. Scorpio
avoids arguments in favor of secret revenge; Libra abhors conflict and will do anything
possible to avoid it, including backing down and seeking a truce.

Libra is an Air Sign and Scorpio is a Water Sign. The best decisions are made combining
the intellect and the emotions -- using both the head and the heart, this couple can meet
almost any challenge, understand almost any puzzle. This is all contingent, of course, on
the two Signs working together, not against one another. Scorpio is a master strategist and
can help Libra focus their occasionally scattered or indecisive minds. At times, however,
Scorpio's over-emotionalism can drag down and dishearten Libra, and Libra can
occasionally make Scorpio feel flustered and uncomfortably stirred up. It is at these times
when Libra's natural diplomacy comes in most handy.

Libra is a Cardinal Sign and Scorpio is a Fixed Sign. Libra is always thinking of something
new to try: a new restaurant or art gallery to visit on a date or a new place to travel to -- but
it's Scorpio who has the determination to follow through on these ideas. These two have
the capability to be the most loyal and devoted of partners, as these are qualities that are
quite important to each of them.

What's the best aspect of the Libra-Scorpio relationship? The power they find in unity. They
can accomplish a lot, whether they come together for a cause in the business or romantic
sphere. They are both winners and they won't give up, making theirs a relationship that
takes care of business.




- i found this on some sit, it might help a bit, when me and my gf read it, it made perfect sense