So has any other scorpio out there have an opinion on this combination?
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Re: Scorpio with Libra
Wed, February 23, 2005 - 7:13 AMI have been in relationships with two Libras. On the negative side, I feel like Libra can make a person very insecure, and we Scorpios tend to be very bad partners for insecure people. On the positive side (and I'm afraid this has only happened with my second Libra), they're interested in harmony and balance and they will act to achieve that. But if the Libra has had a dysfunctional background this can cross over into co-dependency. This is only my experience...YMMV!
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Re: Scorpio with Libra
Wed, February 23, 2005 - 7:21 AMThe first four men I was EVER involved with were all Libras!
One was my ex husband. He is very insecure and was emotionally abusive because of that.
the next two were flings, but...Great sex!
Then I got involved with a man who is now my best friend. We had a very intense relationship. He was always trying to be diplomatic, harmony and balance...yes.
Romantically, it didn't work out. But he is my very best friend. We get along famously.
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Re: Scorpio with Libra
Wed, February 23, 2005 - 11:05 AMMy last relationship was with a Libra. I don't recommend it. He was so indecisive about his feelings for me. So he just did what he always does and found someone else and broke my heart. Rather than working on our real issues he dropped it all and moved on. Had a lot of power play/mind games with him. Superiority issues, to say the least.
Most of my friends a Libras. We are somehow drawn to each other, but I too get frustrated with the insecurities. Generally, I think Libras have fairly high standards and they have a hard time finding friends/partners who can live up to them. I constatntly feel like they're testing me and my integrity (which they have a lot of, themselves) and expect perfection. We have a lot of the same orderliness traits and understandings of how the world works, which is probably why we get along so well. But they sure do keep me on my toes!
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Re: Scorpio with Libra
Wed, February 23, 2005 - 11:28 AMone word: NO
my ex is a libra, and he was so psychologically disturbed that he was trying to lock me down seriously.
1. i can't hang out with my guy friends
2. i can't do anything if he's not there
3. it's not okay if you hang out with your family on christmas, you must be with him 24/7.
4. he has to know every fucking thing you did.
5. you can't sleep if you're tired, you must talk to him.
6. you must answer the phone every night at 9:05 pm, when he calls, even when you're sleeping
7. you can't let go of his hand even if you have like five million bags on both.
okay, so in the beginning he seemed normal and very attractive. then as time passed (say, a week), he grew very insecure and very obsessive-compulsive to a point where you can't breathe. he was also very pessimistic and very very boring, he grew into this...unbearable monster. i understand if he was jealous of my guy friends, but i can't breathe when i'm with him because he was so...restricting. plus, he felt like everything he did was right and he's a fucking dumbass, so that also lead to problems with trying to get through to his thick head. he also emphasized on sex, and i wasn't ready to be like that way with him. it was a very bad experience for me, so i ended it sooner than i expected, and now i'm very FREE. *everyone breathe a sigh of relief* -
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Re: Scorpio with Libra
Wed, February 23, 2005 - 11:42 AMthis is a great question, as i too was pondering the compatibility of scorpio/libra. wow the reviews are mixed! but there seems to be one common thread and that is the insecurity of the Libra (i had no idea). keep the comments coming i look forward to reading more. it's very insightful.
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Re: Scorpio with Libra
Wed, February 23, 2005 - 12:17 PMThanks! Our costuming is quite colorful! Just had another photo shoot, so more to come soon!
And, if I could warn all women away from my ex, I would, but alas, I know not all Libra men/men in general are like him. Just keep your eyes peeled and communication lines open! Be aware of your differences and make sure you both accept them.
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Re: Scorpio with Libra
Wed, February 23, 2005 - 12:49 PMYikes, Confuzzled, how did you get involved with my ex?! It sure sounds like him, even if it wasn't. That's so sad that Libras have to be that way. Sounds like yours and mine were pretty extreme. -
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Re: Scorpio with Libra
Thu, February 24, 2005 - 10:09 AMwow, i feel so sorry for you if they were the same person. don't worry, i'll be here to talk if you need me =)
*shudders* stupid libra of an asshole.
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Re: Scorpio with Libra
Thu, February 24, 2005 - 11:27 AMConfuzzled, he sounds like a Taurus boyfriend I had a looooong time ago. He would believe these weird fantasies he'd have about me having another life as a graffiti artist (something he aspired to be). He'd believe in many things he made up. So frustrating.
The Libra never bothered to really get to know me. Fantasy or otherwise. :P
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Re: Scorpio with Libra
Thu, February 24, 2005 - 12:36 PMI've known a Libra guy for going on 6 years. He is TOTALLY wishy washy and he can't distinguish his own desires from those of others so he's tossed around by everchanging whims. I don't think he realizes he can't please everyone and even if he did, he doesnt have the fortitude to make any solid choices.
The only reason we are friends is because I don't put any stock in him as a fixture in my life... so then we have great parallel interaction, shallow but fun. But even that grows old since as a Scorp I don't have much use for superficial relationships.
Another problem, he swears I am the girl for him. Charming as he is, I know better! Like Sandi I have huge superiority issues... but I can't help it. I could chew him up and spit him out without even blinking, not that I would... I digress!
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Re: Scorpio with Libra
Thu, February 24, 2005 - 2:15 PMActually, I meant that the Libra had superiority issues. Always trying to prove that he knew more than me about anything. Maybe I aspire to be superior. ;} I don't know. -
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Thu, February 24, 2005 - 2:50 PMOops, well you're a Scorpio... you ARE superior!
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Re: Scorpio with Libra
Thu, February 24, 2005 - 7:03 PMWell, I'm a Libra, born on the last day (Oct. 22). and if you're born between the yrs. 1971-83, you're in the "Libra Generation" since that is what Pluto was in during that time. It's Impoartant to look at other factors as well. First, Every one has their own chart-and it's the whole chart that influences a person- not just the sun sign. Some disfunctional people have really challenging charts. And Second, we live in unbalanced times, so lots of people are out of balance. Every sign has positive and negative attributes. Certainly every Scorpio has heard people talk shit about Scorpios. Me, I have 4 planets in Scorpio, besides being on the cusp. -
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Re: Scorpio with Libra
Fri, July 18, 2008 - 6:42 AMI'm a LIbra 2 .but whats the "Libra Generation" first time I heard of that...=/
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Re: Scorpio with Libra
Wed, March 2, 2005 - 10:04 AMThank you everyone for your feedback! All of it has been good information. I've been dating this one for a while now and I just wanted to see if I was going crazy or not! :)
I can see some of the Insecurities, but I really see the indecision and he is always keeping me on my toes. Constantly looking for improvement in every aspect of life. Sometimes it's nice to enjoy what's going on in your life instead of pushing every waking moment.
I'm sure I will do exactly what I always do and soar to the top of the situation after living in it for a while.
Thank you, all of you again!
jasminwind
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Re: Scorpio with Libra
Wed, March 2, 2005 - 10:23 AMHiya,
My first wife was a Libra, one day she loved me, the next she hated me, then she loved me again, just to hate me again, and so it went, until i got tired of it.
But, they she was artistic, very beautiful and sexy.
Hope this helps,
ozai
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Re: Scorpio with Libra
Thu, March 17, 2005 - 12:18 AMi was with one for ike 3 years, and yes.... unfortnately so, i had to leave her behind.........
and yea, it was because she wanted me too much one day, and not at all the next...
really controlling, or at least wanted to be.....
hope this helps ya..... turtle (triple scorpio)
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Re: Scorpio with Libra
Fri, March 18, 2005 - 10:10 AMI love my libra boyfriend. I know that astrology forecasts say it isn't supposted to work, but we are very happy. And I think you have to take into account all aspects of people's charts when considering compatability. -
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Re: Scorpio with Libra
Sun, March 20, 2005 - 9:27 AMMy very best friend is a libra. I love her bunches! Maybe it's because I have 2 planets in libra? -
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Re: Scorpio with Libra
Mon, March 21, 2005 - 10:16 AMmy ex was only cute and handsome the first times around i saw him, then things (not particularly just his face) got ugly. i think the ugliness inside him made him ugly.
this dude has serious issues with jealousy, and I'M the scorpio here. how can he beat me to my own game. fuck him.
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Re: Scorpio with Libra
Mon, March 21, 2005 - 11:15 AMbastard! We get to be the jealous ones how dare he try to pull that on you?!? (o; -
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Re: Scorpio with Libra
Mon, March 21, 2005 - 1:03 PMI personally love Libras. I find them refreshing--and oh so sexy. I have a leo moon though, and, me thinks they fuel it perfectly!!
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Re: Scorpio with Libra
Mon, March 21, 2005 - 4:04 PMHey Confuzzled,
My ex-husband (a Gemini) was horribly jealous. I don't think astrological signs have anything to do with this. This man was so jealous, if he could have locked me in a closet, and only let me out to cook, clean, take care of the children and have sex...he would have!
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Re: Scorpio with Libra
Wed, March 23, 2005 - 9:59 AMthat's true. these people just need to calm down for god's sake. it's all so psychological..=/
..i think i turn people a bit crazy psychologically..i was thinking about it. none of the people i was with came out normal. (haha, suckers)
THINGS WILL NEVER BE THE SAME AGAIN!
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Re: Scorpio with Libra
Wed, March 23, 2005 - 12:50 PMmwa-ha-haaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!
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Re: Scorpio with Libra
Mon, May 1, 2006 - 4:30 PMWhoa what if YOU are a Libra/Scorpio
dnt dnt DNT!
sister mother sister mother
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Re: Scorpio with Libra
Fri, July 18, 2008 - 6:47 AMI have no idea based on experience..
My best friend was a Scorpio and you definately didn't want to piss her off because she would plot a revenge plan to the point of where you were questioning her sanity..
lol
But she as a great friend..kinda miss her very motivated and passionate.
I think Libra and Scorpio may have great sex..but the intellect may suffer based on what I read. Air signs are intellectual..where the mind has to take priority..the Libra is content to *think* about sex all day where the Scorpio has to have it because of the emotions..it being a water sign.
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Re: Scorpio with Libra
Fri, July 18, 2008 - 6:48 AMIn other words.. you may like Libra for the sex =)
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Re: Scorpio with Libra
Fri, July 18, 2008 - 8:47 AMGood sex, everything else completely sucks ....... they are not usually loyal people ... they take delight in creative lying/bullshitting and manipulating people ... very materialistic too .... not a soulful person compared to scorpio on average .... -
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Re: Scorpio with Libra
Fri, July 18, 2008 - 6:38 PMthey are not usually loyal people
Wow..this is interesting. I consider myself a very loyal person but I have dated a Libra before and yes very unfaithful he made we cry for months..but then again he was my first love and I was 16..so yea..
And materialism is a state of mind.. Libra knows this..but beauty is what Libra likes... a very visual sign.
However, this can become annoying because the perfectionism starts to set in.. But personally , I like the intriguing the most.. but I have Aquarius rising.. so this is more of the creative/eccentric perspective. Heres the adjectives people often use to describe me.. weird..funny...odd...stuck up ( which I laugh at this often)..beautiful...striking..emotional ( this is the woman in me haha!!)... so yea..I can see where ppl get that idea...but really Libra is a deep thinker =) -
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Re: Scorpio with Libra
Fri, July 18, 2008 - 6:39 PMAnd I only have one friend... boo
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