What's in your box

topic posted Fri, March 14, 2008 - 7:36 PM by  Enigmatic Cr...
What things do you have in your memory box? I'm talking about sentimental thing you value, something that represents past memories you don't want to lose and maybe do not want to see (yet). Not one of those secret boxes you keep your naughty books and toys, well unless they're sentimental to you!

If box is too small, you can tell us about your memory suitcase, crate and cargo :P no, kidding... just the small ones please.
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Enigmatic Creature
Australia
  • Re: What's in your box

    Fri, March 14, 2008 - 8:52 PM
    Why? Nothing lasts forever. Whatever comes you appreciate it there and then, and then you let go.
    • Re: What's in your box

      Mon, June 30, 2008 - 8:39 AM
      yes, be in the NOW
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        Mon, June 30, 2008 - 11:30 AM
        i can get to attach to things.
        Like for example, i liked this sweater, and i just loved it ,i loved to wear it, my mother freaked couse the sweater looked wasted and she would hide it from me, but nothing could separete us, till one day it become a bunch of fibre. Than i knew it was a time to let go.
        It was few other things i was to attached,
        im just an old sentimental fool *shrug*
  • Re: What's in your box

    Fri, March 14, 2008 - 8:55 PM
    I have an attic.
    • Re: What's in your box

      Fri, March 14, 2008 - 9:01 PM
      i have whole housefull.. and 8000 photographs... Im obsessed with the collection of memories..tickets to concerts, festivals.. I write who I was with, what the weather was like, what I ate, how I felt. Flyers, letters, flowers, fabric, postcards, paintings, rocks, feathers, seawater, shells, cards, books, nuts, toys, jewellery, pottery. There is nothing small about it. It proves I was alive.
      • Re: What's in your box

        Mon, June 30, 2008 - 8:43 AM
        "It proves I was alive."

        i love that! that's how i feel too, i'm OCD and a packrat haha, i've got tix saved from every show i've seen all the way back to 12yrs old, and i have all kinds of collections, from little boxes, to nuts, toys, jewelry, etc, i have a hard time letting go of stuff, but i do find it cathartic after the fact,
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    Mon, March 17, 2008 - 7:02 AM
    I'm a sentimental person with numurous attachments to 'things' that hold memories. It's overwhelming and a little over the top. I'm always working to detach from the 'things' by purging them out of my life, but some things I'll never let go. I keep a big box of family photos. letters, geneology reports and so on. I still have 3 dresses that were my mothers that I keps after she died. There are several boxes of 'things' from the farm my mother grew up on that belonged to her parents and grand parents. Of my own lifetime; there are lots of things that I keep. I hold on to cards that are given to me for a while and to photos.
    • Re: What's in your box

      Mon, March 17, 2008 - 11:14 AM
      I periodically throw my box off a bridge or into a fire.
      Then I start a new box. I've forgotten how many times I have done this
      • Re: What's in your box

        Tue, March 18, 2008 - 1:12 AM
        I don't have anything conciously in my box, but I do like the way other things trigger off memories. A scent, a texture, a name or an old phtograph.
        Memories are pretty unreliable anyhow. I don't dwell on them too much as things change and it's better to change with them.
        Being a scorpio, though, I never forget when someone shafts me. They always get what's coming to them.
      • Re: What's in your box

        Tue, March 18, 2008 - 1:55 AM
        I like that :-)
        • Re: What's in your box

          Tue, March 18, 2008 - 3:27 AM
          Don't have a box myself, they are basically either used all the time or put away in my garage. About time to down size and get a box.
          • Re: What's in your box

            Tue, March 18, 2008 - 6:21 PM
            i keep small things from nature from my past husband - special stones or shells, or charms, volcanic globes, a bundle of herbs, his fire jumpers manual, things like that. utter crap to anyone else - but the memories of love and my life. more valuable than jewels... i am glad for them.
            • Re: What's in your box

              Thu, March 20, 2008 - 4:24 AM
              yeah Travis, that is great.

              When I travelled I added a small item, a keepsake, from each place I went to. The rule was the object should cost no more than one (UK) pound, my native currency. I found some great things and it kept the budget down while still collecting souvineers, I could focus on the "little" things people made and the string of beads, well, they are a beauty to see and hold and each piece tells a tale.

              I love the way something so worthless to the masses can be so valuable to just one person.

              How does anyone get rid of bad memories?
              I reason with them and try to find something good no matter how small.
              • Re: What's in your box

                Mon, June 2, 2008 - 10:55 AM
                Oww! I love writing poetry... it's like an abstract journal if you will. I have numerous boxes under my bed. Maybe I should lock them up...
  • Re: What's in your box

    Sun, June 29, 2008 - 2:36 AM
    nothing hurts more than a box of secrets being opened without your awareness, so, i keep it all in a place where no one can open it and where i have the key, it's memory. if it's forgotten, it'll come back when it's important, if it's not important, it's too little to care
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    Sun, June 29, 2008 - 4:50 PM
    i didn't keep any box at all... but i thought of getting a new one... maximum-security steel suitcase to keep my heretical books in...
    Satanic Bible, Satanic Witch, Seduction, Power, etc...
    stuff i don't want anybody else to see, even my future hubby hehehe
  • Re: What's in your box

    Sun, June 29, 2008 - 5:41 PM
    like we would tell you what's in our box ;)
    • Re: What's in your box

      Sun, June 29, 2008 - 9:15 PM
      hmmm another box.
      • Re: What's in your box

        Mon, June 30, 2008 - 12:54 AM
        I have an emotional box of scabs. Pieces of my heart that have died and fallen off, only to have a new piece slowly grow back and replace it over time.

        I also have an emotional box of passionate kisses and lovemakings. Each one I remember vividly in detail. I will always remember how each one was different from the rest in many unique ways. Just as unique and significant as the girl whom I collected it from. Like tasting the unique flavor and bouquet of a fine wine vintaged from a memorable year long past. I close my eyes and it surprises me what things I never forget.
        • Re: What's in your box

          Mon, June 30, 2008 - 8:44 AM
          wow, that's very beautiful and inspiring! : )
          • Re: What's in your box

            Mon, June 30, 2008 - 9:30 AM
            Yeah Sean, thats beautiful.
            It reminds me on "Combray" when the character from the book vividly remeber his childhood when he dips the cookie in tea

            I dont have the box, i do have album where i put old concert tickets, and generally all the little things that means much to me
            i can be way to sentimental at times
  • Re: What's in your box

    Mon, June 30, 2008 - 9:04 PM
    some old concert tix like oh livia and corks from blingy bottles of wine that i've had and pictures of course of various people, places and things and matchbooks from cool bars/lounges and restaurants that i've been to here and abroad ...and what else ...hmmm.... hee hee .
  • Re: What's in your box

    Thu, July 3, 2008 - 1:42 AM
    i have two new things in my memory box! the first ones!
    (because all the old ones disappeared. lol.)

    on a trip to the Living Desert, i got a very pretty cheetah bangle, because i love animals and love the animal in me...

    and i got a beautiful necklace that has little amber glass beads on the nylon strings, and a huge heart pendant made of GLASS, with something luscious-red inside it, splattered with gold paint, sprinkled with confetti, and vandalized with a black upside-down star. i felt that it represented me, so i had to have it.

    ...

    my old memory box:

    ...i miss my old earrings. gold. dangling. something like a teddy bear. its body was one simple roundish gold plate, with tiny arms and feet. its head, hung over and slightly above the bigger one, was another gold plate with tiny ears and tiny white stones for eyes. any slight movement makes the whole thing look like it's dancing. lol.
    ...bookmarks for le bookworm. bookmarks of different colors, designs, and inspirational messages.
    ...i collected pencils too. off different colors, designs, etc. and stationery.

    now that i'm thinking about it, i miss the old me.
    quite the dreamer, innocent and constantly inspired
  • Re: What's in your box

    Thu, July 3, 2008 - 4:32 AM
    i have two new things in my memory box! the first ones!
    (because all the old ones disappeared. lol.)

    on a trip to the Living Desert, i got a very pretty cheetah bangle, because i love animals and love the animal in me...

    and i got a beautiful necklace that has little amber glass beads on the nylon strings, and a huge heart pendant made of GLASS, with something luscious-red inside it, splattered with gold paint, sprinkled with confetti, and vandalized with a black upside-down star. i felt that it represented me, so i had to have it.

    ...

    my old memory box:

    ...i miss my old earrings. gold. dangling. something like a teddy bear. its body was one simple roundish gold plate, with tiny arms and feet. its head, hung over and slightly above the bigger one, was another gold plate with tiny ears and tiny white stones for eyes. any slight movement makes the whole thing look like it's dancing. lol.
    ...bookmarks for le bookworm. bookmarks of different colors, designs, and inspirational messages.
    ...i collected pencils too. off different colors, designs, etc. and stationery.

    now that i'm thinking about it, i miss the old me.
    quite the dreamer, innocent and constantly inspired