Scorpio Shadow

topic posted Sat, June 14, 2008 - 4:52 PM by  Anansi
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What can we say about the dark side of Scorpio, when he/she is already so well acquainted with his/her own darkness? This is a water sign: full of feeling, subjective in approaching life and people. Scorpio has the courage to face all manner of things, but this usually lie on the emotional plane. What he/she often can't face is the degree to which his/her reactions are governed by his/her opinions. All water signs as a group, tend to opinionatedness, because they are so often unaware of their own thought processes. Being so subjective and concerned for their own personal values, it is difficult to see the clear, fair, bird's-eye view of things. And here is one of Scorpio's greatest blind spots. He/She can be downright fanatical in his/her views about people and life. And this fanaticism can, in the wrong place and at the wrong time, spur him/her into some pretty unpleasant actions based on biased or distorted judgment.

Give one of these a week, a year, ten years, and you have a real horror show, straight out of Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf? Scorpio can ravage a marriage, a love affair, a home, with this kind of behaviour. It isn't sufficient to just say it's a jealous sign. There are many kinds of jealousy. Possessive, yes, but all water signs are possessive. But Scorpio's pathological jealousy isn't simply fear of losing a loved one. We all fear that. Underneath you will find some bitter little vision of life, some black belief about the fundamental rottenness of men/women or whatever. Scorpio's shadow is his/her negativity, couched in rigid opinions which lurk below the surface and often torment him/her at the moments when he/she should feel happiest.

It takes a long time for Scorpio to learn to trust and to forgive. Usually he/she has learned that mistrust early in life, from seeing the dark shadows standing behind his/her parents and his/her environmental upbringing or education. And the wound takes a long time to heal.

It isn't the vindictiveness in these classical situations that is really the problem. Although we're taught that a little honest revenge is often healthier than the outward show of acquiescence and the inner, repressed anger that spews out through indirect channels that so many of us call being 'good'. Besides, sometimes it does a world of good for someone to get back what he/she has just dished out; it might stop him/her from doing it again. What's really wrong here is that Scorpio never gives the other person the benefit of the doubt. The opinion is already formed, prepackaged like frozen vegetables, ready to be trotted out and tacked onto the offender regardless of whether it's true or not, and without knowing the facts of the situation. Water signs are uncomfortable with facts. Facts confuse the issue, which for water is primarily how it feels, not what really happened. Scorpio's shadow side completely ignores the other person's viewpoint.

This is a pretty hard thing to live with. You can see its traces not only in individuals, but in political, spiritual, or religious ideologies as well. Certain astrologers have considered that Germany is traditionally ruled by Scorpio. Where else but in a Scorpio could you have a single fanatical idea - anti-Semitism - arise with such force to take complete possession of a nation with such destruction following in its wake? The Scorpio who cannot deal with the hydra within himself/herself will project it into the world and see it in others. Then you have the persecutors who believe it their mission to redeem humanity at gun-point. St. Paul was said to have been a Scorpio. Much of the bloodshed committed in the name of "Christ" throughout the ages stems from his interpretation of Christianity. Never forget that Scorpio is a sign of great power - for good or ill. No Scorpio, however apparently insignificant, is without influence over those close to him/her. See that mild little man/woman over there in the grey suit, reading the Wall Street Journal? He/She may not think about things like witch-hunts and the paradox of violence in the name of Jesus. He/She may not have read Faust, or Paradise Lost. But he/she is a Scorpio. He/She has insight and power, however repressed. And he/she can make of his/her life anything he/she wishes.

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Anansi
Illinois
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  • Re: Scorpio Shadow

    Sat, June 14, 2008 - 9:23 PM
    Whew! Talk about shadows! The introductory paragraphs (and the first 5 or so pages of that long article found through the link) were so hard to look at, because I feel as if I am now exposed for what really goes on deep down inside of me. I thought no one would ever know :-). That may just be the most insightful thing I have ever seen, regarding the Scorpionic experience.

    I'm Scorpio Rising (with Mercury, Mars and Uranus in Scorpio), along with a heavy, dominant Pluto (conjunct Sun, conjunct Moon, and semi-square Venus.)
  • Re: Scorpio Shadow

    Wed, June 18, 2008 - 6:42 AM
    Wow, Evin, thanks for the link. That's good stuff.
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      Re: Scorpio Shadow

      Thu, June 19, 2008 - 8:46 AM
      "What's really wrong here is that Scorpio never gives the other person the benefit of the doubt. The opinion is already formed, prepackaged like frozen vegetables, ready to be trotted out and tacked onto the offender regardless of whether it's true or not, and without knowing the facts of the situation. Water signs are uncomfortable with facts. Facts confuse the issue, which for water is primarily how it feels, not what really happened. Scorpio's shadow side completely ignores the other person's viewpoint. "

      I feel the scorpio shadow, except in this paragraph i have to say i personaly have to know all the facts too,
      i need to know everything,everything to a tiny detail,
      even though it doesnt efect my judgments ,couse they are definately led by my emotions and not reason.
      But i still need to know everything so i can torture my self later with endless analysis
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    Re: Scorpio Shadow

    Thu, June 19, 2008 - 9:20 AM
    Libra is known as a war sign also.... I thought Germany was a Libra. It is the sign of strategic planning... Being the opposite sign of Aries. The Art of War....

    Libra (the Love sign) is the war sign opposite and closely associated with Ares (the sign Aries) God of War, they define the saying "All is fair in love and war"...the flip side of the peace coin is war!

    Cardinal is all about action.... And Venus had started the Trojan War..... Just something to ponder at.... when looking at their blank stares heheheh

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