Hiya, I've been a member for a while but have been inactive for sometime. I am in a fairly new relationship, just a little over a year now and we moved into the same home early (but not too early for gay relationships -- moving van on the 2nd date is the big joke). We moved in together at about 7 months after we met in person (we knew each other on-line about 5 months prior to that). We had both been out of our previous relationships for a little over a year.
So, we're both Scorpios and we've recently hit a brick wall. We both seem to want it our way and find it difficult to compromise. Anyone have any suggestions for us or have been in or are in a Scorpio/Scorpio relationship?
I fell head over heels for him while we were still just chatting on-line actually and knew he was the 'forever' guy for me. We mutually agreed to see a therapist, that starts this week. We are just so hard headed and sometimes miss each others points in conversations, guess since we are always thinking of what we want, not what the other wants.
Its wild, we both feel the same thing at the same time but can't bring each other out of it. Like sadness, stress, loneliness, etc. Only polar opposite we have is sex drive, his is through the roof and mine has stalled (I know, unreal for a Scorpio!). We also most times know what the other is about to say or ask.
I hope to hear from others who have been or are in a "same sign" relationship. I'm early November and he's mid-November if that makes any difference.
Take care,
Jim
So, we're both Scorpios and we've recently hit a brick wall. We both seem to want it our way and find it difficult to compromise. Anyone have any suggestions for us or have been in or are in a Scorpio/Scorpio relationship?
I fell head over heels for him while we were still just chatting on-line actually and knew he was the 'forever' guy for me. We mutually agreed to see a therapist, that starts this week. We are just so hard headed and sometimes miss each others points in conversations, guess since we are always thinking of what we want, not what the other wants.
Its wild, we both feel the same thing at the same time but can't bring each other out of it. Like sadness, stress, loneliness, etc. Only polar opposite we have is sex drive, his is through the roof and mine has stalled (I know, unreal for a Scorpio!). We also most times know what the other is about to say or ask.
I hope to hear from others who have been or are in a "same sign" relationship. I'm early November and he's mid-November if that makes any difference.
Take care,
Jim
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Re: Help....can two Scorpio's Survive?
Sat, June 28, 2008 - 9:37 PMscorpio on scorpio is kinda like christmas and the tet offensive all rolled up into one ...
enjoy it while it lasts ...
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Re: Help....can two Scorpio's Survive?
Sun, June 29, 2008 - 2:18 PMThis is Scorpio Sun Sign Compatibility if it helps
SUN SCORPIO-SCORPIO
Your partnership is an intense one, and you are likely to become very attached to, or obsessed with each other. If romantic attraction is even reasonably strong, this relationship could easily lead to marriage. First of all, both of you are very oriented towards marriage. Neither of you feels comfortable in light relationships and it is difficult for you to be "just dating" someone. You prefer to be wholeheartedly involved in a deep relationship or not at all.
Both of you are also prone to be possessive and very emotionally attached to anyone that you give your love to. Like most lasting, important relationships, yours will have its share of difficult times, and you both seem to thrive on passionate, tempestuous interactions. Stormy fights and sizzling reunions may typify your relationship. You both love intensely and you hate with equal ferocity, so your relationship is likely to be either deeply satisfying or very destructive to you both; there is no middle ground for the two of you!
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Re: Help....can two Scorpio's Survive?
Tue, July 1, 2008 - 4:36 PMno...bad idea for two Scorpio sun to be together. I learned the hard way.
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Re: Help....can two Scorpio's Survive?
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Re: Help....can two Scorpio's Survive?
Tue, July 1, 2008 - 8:49 PMIt depends on the rest of the astrological natal birth chart.
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Re: Help....can two Scorpio's Survive?
Wed, July 2, 2008 - 5:25 PMin agreement regarding the post about Natal Chart
I happily report that after DISASTEROUS relationships (and why the fuck did I bother...don't ask) with Leos, and
Gemini's and whiny fucking Pisces (sorry fish!) I have been in an absolutely transformative relationship with
another Scorpio - he is like water and air; simply necessary.
That said, our Natal charts have some delightful aspects which undoubtedly assist us. And, our relationship
has not been without some knock down drag outs but, because we remain respectful, any damage done
is easily dismissed with the understanding of the greater good.
So, I'll say check the natal and if positive aspects exists.....I don't doubt that two Scorps can survive
We like to call ourselves the "Five Body Blade" couple - don't fuck with us because our united front is like an army
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Re: Help....can two Scorpio's Survive?
Sat, July 5, 2008 - 1:03 AMhi jim
i'm a scorpio with a scorpio. i also know 6 other scorpio couples and 4/6 of these are happily married. so do not believe that it wouldn't make a good match just because you are the same sign.
i hope the councelling would help you two
good luck!
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Re: Help....can two Scorpio's Survive?
Sat, July 5, 2008 - 1:24 AM>I would like to find a scorpio girl<
me too Sean. I think I would like to give it a try as relatonships with other signs doesn't seem to be working. The best relationship (a marriage) was with a Leo but I was rather submissive there.
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Re: Help....can two Scorpio's Survive?
Sat, July 5, 2008 - 3:05 PMMost certainly! Two Scorps can survive together indeed. Speaking as a November born with a November born. Not much of an astrology expert or much of a believer either, but just showing a lil support. :) All relationships are work work work, but surely it helps when two people share profound understanding.
Good luck, you guys! You seem to be taking all the right steps to make it all work anyway. :D
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