My friend, her husband is a scorpio, and lately he's been really reserved and not wanting to communicate. He's working long hours, is stressed, and very tired most of the time. But she's annoyed with him because he isn't interacting or talking to her. She said that last night, they were both sitting on the sofa. She was sitting next to him trying to get him to pay attention to her and he was busy playing WoW. She wants me to ask what she can do to get through to him and get the attention from her husband that she needs. I'm going to print out whatever replies I get to give to her tomorrow. Thanks if you can help her.
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Re: Posting a question to help a friend.
Thu, July 3, 2008 - 7:00 PMhave another woman over and have group sex ... he cant resist that ... make him some cocktails ... cook him something nice to eat ... -
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Re: Posting a question to help a friend.
Thu, July 3, 2008 - 7:08 PMLOL....she would never agree to a threesome with anyone, man or woman. From what I can tell by her behaviour towards him, if he's not giving her the attention she wants she'll just ignore him right back. -
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Re: Posting a question to help a friend.
Thu, July 3, 2008 - 11:09 PM"if he's not giving her the attention she wants she'll just ignore him right back"
well then she shouldn't expect more than she can do herself! sounds like they will have to grow, or deal with exchanging broodiness. -
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Re: Posting a question to help a friend.
Fri, July 4, 2008 - 2:39 AMThe best thing she can do is do something for herself, hobbies, go for a massage, catch up with friends or whatever she enjoys doing. He probably just needs time to himself esp. if work is stressing him out. It is too much to expect one person to be your everything. Get out there, enjoy your life and soon he will be wondering where she is and what is so much fun with out him. I think it is important for couples to have seperate interests. Life would get very boring if we lived in each others pockets all the time. I like the Men for Mars Women from venus ideas. Sometimes men just need some down time to recharge and be alone. Women can take this as a rejection because we prefer lots of love and attention when we are feelin low. So really what she needs is to catch up with family and friends. She can rely on them for support if he is not available. Of course everybody is different and I don't want to box men and women into seperate boxes but maybe that's all it is. He wants time to be in a mood, this will pass but sitting watching it won't be any fun at all. -
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Re: Posting a question to help a friend.
Fri, July 4, 2008 - 6:35 AMThis is great advice! I think she will like this suggestion.
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