Greetings! I'm new to the site and to this particular tribe. I come seeking advice and understanding on behalf of myself and my scorpio best friend. We've been very close friends for over 2 years, though not in a romantic/sexual way. I want to have a deeper, more trusting relatiionship with him but I'm not sure how to go about it. I always get the feeling that he's holding something back from me. Yet I understand that everyone has secrets and a need for personal privacy on occasion. He's never lied to me or hurt me so I've had no reason to distrust him. I'm so happy and grateful for his friendship and just want our friendship to be the best it can be. Can anyone advise me? Thank you for you time.:)
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Re: Can I play too?
Sun, June 29, 2008 - 3:48 PMread thru past posts, this is a subject that has been examined in great detail from time to time, and there is some great advice in them. -
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Re: Can I play too?
Sun, June 29, 2008 - 4:52 PMI have been browsing and they already have been helpful. But it always helps to hear fresh advice.
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Re: Can I play too?
Sun, June 29, 2008 - 3:54 PMI want to have a deeper, more trusting relatiionship with him but I'm not sure how to go about it
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A romantic relationship? -
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Re: Can I play too?
Sun, June 29, 2008 - 4:51 PMNo, just a stronger and more open friendship. -
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Re: Can I play too?
Sun, June 29, 2008 - 5:00 PMthat sounds strange to me........
okay, what would a "stronger and more open" friendship bring to you?
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to some scorpios, friends are... friends......... to hang out with, but not necessarily share their soul with...
they do it with lovers............
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www2.tech.purdue.edu/cg/Cour...ower.htm
rule number 2
Never put too Much Trust in Friends, Learn how to use Enemies
Be wary of friends-they will betray you more quickly, for they are easily aroused to envy. They also become spoiled and tyrannical. But hire a former enemy and he will be more loyal than a friend, because he has more to prove. In fact, you have more to fear from friends than from enemies. If you have no enemies, find a way to make them.
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Re: Can I play too?
Sun, June 29, 2008 - 5:05 PMYou may exceed him in certain areas that truly matter to him, to gain his respect and... dependence (at least for the coaching, if he needs it)...
or you can seduce him, which is dangerous if u're not in for the long haul... -
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Re: Can I play too?
Sun, June 29, 2008 - 5:09 PMadmit it, you're probably in love with him.
(thought that because you said he's your "best friend," now... if you want him to be more than just a best friend........ me i couldn't call someone a best friend if they aren't really close to me, by heart and soul. i'm thinking that if your definition of best friend is same as mine, then... you probably want a lover) -
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Re: Can I play too?
Sun, June 29, 2008 - 6:29 PMNo, romantic love between us is non-existent. At least on my end. But I have no clue what goes on in his head sometimes. I wouldn't want to hurt our friendship in any way.
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Re: Can I play too?
Sun, June 29, 2008 - 6:27 PMI have no desire to seduce anyone. He's not that sort friend.
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Sun, June 29, 2008 - 6:26 PMI'm just different I guess. I like to be very close emotionally to all my friends. I don't think I have any enemies.
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Sun, June 29, 2008 - 5:33 PMNo, just a stronger and more open friendship.
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That cannot be rushed or forced. With anyone.
Be yourself, trying too hard to get him to open up more will only have the opposite effect. -
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Re: Can I play too?
Sun, June 29, 2008 - 6:30 PMYou're right, I have to be patient and not force things. I'm always myself. Maybe I'm just too eager.
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